Any Stalkers or been called a stalker?

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When I like a guy I usually obsess on that guy, and I have a tendency to "stalk" him, but I try not too. I think it's maybe because I don't know how to talk to him, so I have a tendency to follow him.

Anyone else with this problem?

Lol, yes, when I completely fall head over heels for someone I can't seem to help myself. Fortunately this isn't an everyday occurrence, hasn't happened to me in over a year now, and I was worse when I was younger.

I had a a major crush on a girl a few years back. I thought of her all the time. I even fantasized (not sexual) about me speaking to her and she actually liking me. Is that stalking? (Maybe mentally ) I don't know.

I'm a stalking cat all the time. When it comes to guys though, I'm more like Tom from Tom & Jerry.

i did it some w my previous... interest...

but it helped me realize what a moron i was being, since she tended to tell everyone else all the secrets she'd never tell me with absolutely NO attempt at hiding

I used to stare at a boy when I was in high school. I just thought he was cute. I stared with such intensity that it was creepy, but I think he got used to it after a while.

I've been told online I am like a stalker. Never been called that in real life I don't think.

I remember having this boy stare at me a lot and it creep me out!
But yet I would stare at other boys!

Kinda hypocritical eh?

girls used to stare at me wide eyed in 8th grade, then they learned to control themselves lol
it was nice, cuz in 8th grade i was the guy with like the widest shoulders and so on. then i got to high school and i was in a class 500. some women stare at me on the train, but rarely. i love staring at people - i just try not to do it when people can notice. sometimes i stare at people through the window reflection in a train.

i used to find it really hard to not try to be around the girls i really liked at school all the time. breaking up with Girlfriends was hard as they seemed to move on really quckily and i always took months years... sometimes i would 'stalk' them i guess... i remember once i was 15 i cycled 20 miles in the night to appear at my exs gf's window... so impulsive.. needless to say she didn’t get the romantic sentiment and was understandably surprised and abit concerned so she sent my away after a 10 mins chat!

I also remember following people I didn’t get caught though!! haha so its all good

thinking back ive been stalked too. it didnt really bother me, i thought the girl actions were really sweet and i was amazed she waited a whole day outside my flat i was staying just to find me! i couldnt believe that other people were able to make such extreme gestures.. thought i was the only one.. still it didnt last but it was very intense and passionate!

I would say i think its normal for AS ppl to get abit obcessive and it neednt be a problem as long as your willing to back off if youve been made aware that upsetting someone... i catn understand why anyone would persist after that.

When I'm attracted to a girl, I often obsess over her. Some people might consider this creepy, although I don't really intend to be like that. I'm just socially awkward, misunderstood, and wish to be liked back by somebody I'm interested in...

Tim (aka the Slipperman)

I'm afraid of becoming one... That's part of why if I'm undecided as to proceed or run, I usually pick run to err on the side of caution...

Before I found out about AS, I suppose thinking back, I must have been stalking a girl from work. I didn't see anything wrong with it, but with what I told people, and what other people saw, it was stalking. This was after we slept together, I was after more though. But slowly learned to move on. I try to be more aware of what I am doing and if it's going as far as stalking, I try to stop