GiantHockeyFan wrote:
I am male and as a general rule get along with women better. In school they were usually (not always) more mature and as adults, they are generally kinder and more compassionate. As a sensitive guy who wears his heart on his sleeve, it can be challenging to connect with males who can't think past getting drunk on Saturday night.
this is sorta me. in primary school id goof off with the guys but tell my problems to the girls (whenever they were there), or more often to the teachers i had which until 6th grade were all ladies. my closest friend is considerably older then me - has a childlike (or parts of it are childlike) sense of humor. i don't doubt that guys can be really dependable and have just as much of a listening ear, but i have no easy way to contact the few dude acquaintances i know. if i did i think they'd be annoyed.
i'm lucky not to know many guys like that i suppose. weekend drunkards and all.
having femme friends all my life certainly left it's mark on me.
sometimes i wonder what my gf thinks of me having almost-exclusively few female friends. if she thinks of it at all.
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