Growing tired of people, any others?

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That's it, not many people around, but the ones that are accept you as you are.

Yes, most people are incredibly fake and superficial. The openness here has been very refreshing and renewed my faith in humanity's ability for conversation.

People are best in moderation only...any extended length quickly becomes a chore to feign interest. I think personal plans later in the day should be kept to yourself unless it can spawn a conversation topic or another person is needed. To hear people casually say "I'm going to do vacuuming" and expect a response is pitiful.

I have no image. Not even in a place where people expect me to, like a funeral. Most people don't like that but honesty is always the best policy in my eyes, even if it is just lessening the bluntness of it (a trait we sadly must learn to cope with others well.)

Animals will always make better company in my eyes, especially cats.

Do I get tired of people? Yes, AND THEIR DRAMA TOO!! !! ! Seriously, I think people enjoy drama. I can't stand it! Hence, whenever my friends in school try to suck me into drama, I talk them into letting me be the mediator. The quality and the quantities of the mean thoughts that spin through their heads tha they share with me is unbelievable! The problem is, I'm always told to pick a side to anyone's drama, even if I don't know the person, just so I have something interestig to follow. It annoys me sooo much! But a lot of people are fake these day as well. Now THAT I get tired of people more than drama will ever make me.

I find them very, well... not thorough. They change conversation topics every ten seconds, it seems! Sometimes, I try to say something, but can't, then when it is finally "my" turn, they have already switched topic so much that it was I meant to say is off-topic. That is especially painful when there are many people.

Well society has conditioned American to like drama, I can't really comment for other cultures. I think partially people need a balance between being like an adult and being childlike. Often the dichotomy of it is far too large.

To be a mediator is incredibly frustrating for me, how do you do it?

COnversations should have a consistent topic for a decent period of time in my opinion. However, it is important to note that we think in hierarchies of information, where others are far more contextual.

I have another thing to note: people trying to talk to you when you're clearly stressed out. Seems they are fine with judging but have no clue how aspergians calm themselves.

Well they communicate about microscopic life details. We focus on our special interests often and it just tires them out trying to keep up with all the information I imagine.