IkeSiCwan wrote:
I guess I can make news friends with other aspies, but not with NTs. At some day they find diffeculties with being friend with me. My social lag of having no social autopilot in comunication with NTs is a border that NTs cannot overcome. They suppose too much into what I say and or write, they often see and understand more between the lines than I actualy have said or written. I see only backgroudn color between the lines I write, NTs seem to see more, even when there is no more! Somehow they are not able to learn that I do not speek between the lines and say and mean exactly what I say or write.
I feel the same. I often feel that NTs are "reading between lines" and coming up with explanations for my behavior that I would not agree with. I think they're picking up on my emotions and putting far more emphasis on that than what I actually say. But my emotions are all over the place because I don't know how to control them. So I might come off as anxious and shaky because I'm preoccupied, they pick up on it instantly, and then when I say someone that I thought was innocent, they reply in a way that ties it into how anxious I am, almost like they know my emotional state better than I do.
Sometimes I'm able to think about myself the way others must think of me, and I understand why they call me weird, but I still can't change.
20 Dec 2013, 5:01 pm
