Making the 1st move........

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nikkiDT
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29 Apr 2012, 7:48 am

In a social situation, do you usually make the first move if you want to talk to someone? Even when it's incredibly awkward?

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29 Apr 2012, 7:52 am

no..
i want to, and might spend half an hour gathering the energy and courage to do so, but i end up taking too long that either the chance/situation has faded, or i have been in the gathering so long that my energy is gone (or both)...

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29 Apr 2012, 2:31 pm

No, I do not. I am afraid of that if I do the people will reject me. However, I am expected to.

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29 Apr 2012, 3:20 pm

Depends. For the most part no because most people I will be awkward with, but with people who I feel comfortable with and who I believe I could get along with I will approach them first - I'm generally a fairly confident person.

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29 Apr 2012, 4:52 pm

nikkiDT wrote:

In a social situation, do you usually make the first move if you want to talk to someone? Even when it's incredibly awkward?

Since a trait of Asperger's is aggression, we probably do without realizing it.

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