I run a website for my guild that is hosted with enjin, And it is a forum.
I am having trouble communicating my ideas and being flexible with others ideas. I do not know them and they are giving ideas and if i do not implement them they feel unheard. alot of people think I am a poor leader or that I do not care. Apparently at some point they thought I was a spoiled brat and would not listen to reason and got over emotional when I did not get my way. when this is not it at all but it is hard to explain. I also have issues that causeless my writing sucks.... I have chrome so spelling isn't an issue and when I pay attention I can capitalize. but sentence structure screws me over every time. A few people know i have aspergers but in a clan like this people don't really care. they want a leader who knows what is going on and can handle it all and i seem to miss things and not be part of the group enough. I am not sure what i should do.
I have a few options that i see the first is to step down as leader. but i really do not want to. i like my guild that i ahve created if eel important and successful about something in my life for the first time. The game is The Elder Scrolls Online and will not be released for some time so i do have time to learn.
Another option/thing i need to do, is to make a post explaining my condition. my fear is that this will make me seem like a weak leader. - need help making this idk what i would say or how
and the other is to simply learn. i am making this thread in the hope people can help me. with managing a forum and with communicating as an aspie. I also need ideas for how to tell people about my issues but also how to over come them within chat and forum and voice servers and other multiplayer games. how to be what they want, the leader they need.
22 Mar 2013, 2:05 am
