Are they really plotting against us?

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My friend Kaelyn and I have been through a lot since 9th grade and now we're in 11th grade. So, we just now figured out that someone or a group of people are plotting against us. We mainly think that her cousin Daisha is the leader of the team, followed by Daisha's brother Darius. Daisha and Darius have never liked me and for some reason, liked all of Kaelyn's friends except me. They would talk about all of the time and make fun of me. Daisha seems to be pretty jealous of Kaelyn because she always likes Kaelyn's boyfriends and when they break up, Daisha becomes really close to them. Over the past summer, Daisha and Darius claimed they did not like Kaelyn's boyfriend Jonathan, but out of nowhere, Daisha AND Darius became friends with him. At that same time, Jonathan started not liking me and would get jealous any time Kaelyn and I were on the phone. Then, Kaelyn, Daisha, Darius, and the rest of their family went on a family vacation out of town. Unfortunately, Kaelyn had sex with a boy while Darius had sex with a girl in the same room. So it's possible Darius or Daisha told Jonathan of Kaelyn cheating because after that happened, Jonathan always claimed that Kaelyn cheats on him.
Now for me, the summer was a pain. I started back talking to this girl named Shaquon that I thought I was in love with since 7th grade who had a boyfriend named James that hasn't liked me since 9th grade because we got into a fight and I told Shaquon of him cheating. James is also one of Darius' friends. Also, I started back talking with one of Shaquon's friends Tania who is also Daisha's best friend. I revealed a lot of information to Tania and she could have possibly told Daisha who then told Darius who told James. James sent me a threaten message telling me to stop talking to Shaquon because she doesn't like me. I asked her about it and she said she didn't know he did that, but she told me she doesn't really care about me. So we stopped talking in all.

Later in that summer, I tried talking to a girl named Desiree that I saw on Instagram. She didn't show interest in me until me and Kaelyn stopped talking due to Jonathan being jealous all of the time. When that happened, Desiree and I started talking and she actually seemed interested in me. But soon enough Kaelyn and I started back talking and everything went downhill with both of us. Desiree stopped talking to me and Kaelyn began to have issues with Jonathan again. Kaelyn told me her and Jonathan were fine when me and her stopped talking and I told her me and Desiree were talking when me and her stopped talking. We didn't understand it at the time, but now we do.

After summer was over and we went back to school, I was still interested in Desiree. But she still didn't show interest in me again besides the occasional looks and glances whenever we saw each other. Soon enough, I discovered that Darius knew Desiree for a long time and him and one of his friends liked Desiree. They made a bet to see who could date her when Kaelyn realized she previously told Darius of me liking Desiree. He found out that I still liked her and all of a sudden, the looks and glances from Desiree stopped. It seemed like I was invisible so I moved on. About a month or 2 later, I noticed a girl named Casey that rides my bus would look at me alot. I started talking to her but she said she had a boyfriend but we stayed friends. Then, I started to notice that she still showed signs that she likes me so I questioned her about it and her boyfriend messaged me telling me not to talk to her anymore and we stopped talking. But she continued to show signs that she likes me. People started telling me Casey liked me. Then, every school break we had, me and her would start back talking, something would happen, and we would stop talking again. It was like I was being played alot of times. I found out her brother doesn't like me. So, I told her that I felt like she was playing me and that even my friends thought it. She told me "if so bye" and hasn't talked to me in a couple of weeks. I tried to still talk to her, but she never responded. So I've given up on her.

Coincidentally, every break, Kaelyn and her boyfriend got back together, something happened, and they broke up again until the next break came. And also, after me and Casey stopped talking for the final time, they broke up a day or two later. We started thinking if there's something wrong with us. She realized that she was in the wrong for some things, but we both realized that some things weren't adding up. I found out from Kaelyn that Darius is friends with Casey's brother and sister. So then we thought, Daisha and Darius may be plotting against us along with help from Jonathan and Casey. Even Desiree, James, and Tania may have helped them before.

I know it sounds crazy and paranoid, but with everything that's happened to us, her cousins plotting against us seem likely and everything adds up with our theory. Are they really plotting against us?

You lost me after the first two sentences.

They aren't plotting against you from what I have seen. It seems they are undermining you when they get the opportunity to do so. Telling someone else who you like, and then that person goes and tells your crush is clearly undermining you... especially if they end up dating as well.

o wow.

That's a whole lot of what?

I am familiar with the nature of the game you are playing, and I realize that those are possible consequences of that game, and if you want to avoid such consequences, then play a different game.
It seems all serious, but it's not. It's a game amongst children who don't have a clue which game is the right game to play, and eventually you should all end up too focused on challenging careers to worry about who likes who, and that is when it will all settle down and start making sense.
The game is a militaristic social game in which the children involved may randomly form groups and devote social resources against one another. The stakes are social happiness and social ruin, and the entire goal is completely random and emotion based. The emotions that originate the actions are unfortunately obsolete in any modern society, especially in societies that allow for sexual activity without sharing disease or producing offspring.

Also, my advice is don't have sex until marriage, and don't use mind altering substances.

Actually, it reminds me of a TV show on Warner Brothers TV that I never watch because the children are always getting in trouble with each other. No person ever really has to do any social action that has to lead to any kind of social consequences, and if the people around you are doing those actions, avoid them or don't associate.