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Andrew. A
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27 Nov 2016, 2:48 pm

Over the past month or so my only friend has been ignoring me in favor of her online friends and I don't know what to do about it? I've tried talking to her about it in person and online but she's either gotten mad at me for bringing it up or flat out ignored me when I did. What should I do?



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27 Nov 2016, 6:29 pm

How many times have you tried to talk to your friend about her ignoring you?
If you've tried three times, and have gotten no response or an angry response,
then the socially acceptable thing to do is stop contacting her
and move on to find new friends who will appreciate you.



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27 Nov 2016, 8:42 pm

That means two things/

1. She is mad at you she is feeling put on the spot because she is guilty about something
2. She is ignoring you because she is has lost her interest

Whatever you do, please be sure to let the ball be in her court and just invest your time in others.



Andrew. A
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27 Nov 2016, 8:55 pm

I've tried talking to her three times about this



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27 Nov 2016, 8:57 pm

I would say don't push the boundries. She clearly doesn't want them to pressed.

Does she like being around you?



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29 Nov 2016, 10:47 am

Hmm. Who knows?

You probably shouldn't press her on it because it doesn't seem like she will give you a clear answer.

However, you probably need to broaden your friendship base. You shouldn't really be dependent upon one person for social interraction. That way you will be less dissapointed if they decide to act wierd.

There are probably plenty of lonely people looking for a friend or two. I would try to start looking were I you.



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29 Nov 2016, 5:25 pm

You could also get involved in some sort of activity revolving around your interests while working on you. The best thing to do would be to leave her alone.

I really like Aspertastic had to say and he is right because that's like putting your eggs into one basket and you can't do that.