Throwing a bog brush at me

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18 Dec 2025, 11:50 am

I was in a public restroom cubicle a few weeks ago on a night out when one of my friends climbed up the door/cubicle and threw a bog brush at me which hit my head/jacket. I shouted at him a bit for doing that.

Would you have done the same in that situation?

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18 Dec 2025, 11:52 am

You have the most strangest friends.

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18 Dec 2025, 11:58 am

Tamaya wrote:

You have the most strangest friends.

What would you have done if someone did that to you?

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18 Dec 2025, 12:02 pm

It's a weird thing for him to have done.

If someone did that to me because they thought it was funny, I'd be angry. I think I'd need an apology before I'd want to be friends again.

Unless there were extenuating circumstances.

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18 Dec 2025, 12:12 pm

Jamesy wrote:

Tamaya wrote:

You have the most strangest friends.

What would you have done if someone did that to you?

Shouted, probably. It wasn't appropriate for your friend to throw a toilet brush at you. Nobody does that really, only stupid or immature people.

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18 Dec 2025, 12:16 pm

Tamaya wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Tamaya wrote:

You have the most strangest friends.

What would you have done if someone did that to you?

Shouted, probably. It wasn't appropriate for your friend to throw a toilet brush at you. Nobody does that really, only stupid or immature people.

My friends 27

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18 Dec 2025, 12:29 pm

It's still a weird thing for them to do. Who'd want a toilet brush hurled at them? It's gross.

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18 Dec 2025, 12:39 pm

Was it the youth club

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18 Dec 2025, 12:47 pm

I can literally only think of what I would have done about this when I was about 15 years old and that wouldn't be appropriate advice

Does your friend not get out very much

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18 Dec 2025, 12:55 pm

Jamesy wrote:

Tamaya wrote:

You have the most strangest friends.

What would you have done if someone did that to you?

Hmm. I'd think I need some new friends.

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18 Dec 2025, 4:56 pm

An interesting conundrum
The first half dozen responses I thought of are clearly excessive and escalatory.
I'd probably be angry enough to not trust my automatics and leave.

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09 Jan 2026, 3:49 pm

That's a strange group of friends that you have.

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