shadexiii wrote:
You haven't been sabotaged, your kindness / generosity has been exploited. As long as you let her do it, she will likely not see a problem with it.
If her kid is very young, I can understand the difficulty with work. At the same, time, its not like she's completely unable to make money. She doesn't have the right to complain about how you spend your money. How is she even paying for the rent if she isn't working?
If you are worried about her leeching off of you, keep track of your spending on her and her kid for a given month, and compare it to the rent. If they're way out of balance, bring it up with her. If she acts entitled, let her know she isn't.
I don't remember this post. I hope I made it while sobner.. right now, I'm not, so please take anything I say with a very large grain of salt.
28 May 2007, 8:50 pm
