IsabellaLinton wrote:
Live pets are better for me. I was never much into teddy bears for cuddling.
I've had lots of them and they were cute, but I didn't even sleep with them in my bed.
Had two teddy bears when I was a child..a big one and little one ("Daddy Bear" and "little bear") that meant a lot to me. Later I switched to live pets. My theory is that cats and humans both trigger animal instincts in the other. We remind them of their mothers when they were kittens, and they remind us of human infants. So both species like to snuggle with the other. But we get it a little wrong...often flip the cats on their backs and cradle them in our arms...and talk baby talk and make exaggerated facial expressions at their faces(ie we instinctively but unconsciously try to teach them to talk...which they cant do). Male cats are more laid back and will often put up with that s**t. But female cats dont for a moment. So you have to let them curl up next to you while you recline...like a kitten would against its mother.