Fear

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I have been wanting to meet other men but have been thinking on it for a while but fear is preventing it and making me avoid gays. I have the fear of getting with a guy and the possibility of being infected with HIV. A side of me dislikes gay men despite being gay myself.

Thats probsbly going to take awhile to figure it out , but ,maybe after you do get alittle more involved in that lifestyle maybe by dipping your toe in that scene. Some of your apprehension will go away? .. And of course anyone with anybody should be aware of the chance of spreading social diseases.. Social stigmas in some areas,of the planet can still be strongly against lifestyle changes . Its your life eitherway and hopefully you do what works out for you ?

Ya know another thing you could consider is its ok to be gay and asexual (that is me) I don't have sex with other people and I'm fine with that. I would say; though, always practice safe sex going forward in the future. Enjoy your life.