Timothy HoYuan Chan wants to bust three myths - Non Speakers
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I’m autistic and non-speaking. Here’s what I want you to know
My family noticed autistic features from around 15 months of age. I never looked at people and did not respond when called. I lined up toys instead of playing with them. When I wanted something, I took people’s hands to get it for me. I had frequent meltdowns in busy environments or when routines changed unexpectedly, but I couldn’t let people know why I was upset.
I was later diagnosed with autism. My family grieved to hear that I might never be able to lead an independent or full life.
But I learned to communicate in another way
A turning point came when I was nine. I began learning how to communicate with a type of augmentative and alternative communication known as supported typing. I type on a machine with a keyboard, called a Lightwriter, which speaks what I type. Another person touches my shoulder as I type. This touch helps me be aware of my body and helps me focus on communicating my message.
I used supported typing at school and now at university, where I am a PhD candidate. I’m researching neurodiversity in autistic people with minimal, unreliable, or no speech, or those with complex communication and high support needs.
With supported typing, I am able to live life more fully, to give a TEDx talk, one of the first by a non-speaker, and to write my autobiography. I used supported typing to write this article.
How common is it for an autistic person not to speak?
Autism affects how people communicate, interact and perceive the world. Autistic people show differences in social communication as well as narrow interests, such as Lego or trains.
In 2022, there were 290,900 autistic Australians. About one-third are nonspeaking.
This nonspeaking autistic community is socially vulnerable and frequently experiences nonacceptance and exclusion. As a member of this community, I am driven to bust some myths.
Myth 1: We don’t use language
Autistic nonspeakers cannot use speech to communicate. But many of us are verbal, that is, we understand and use language.
I am a visual thinker, and I sense my world in pictures and images. Initially, speech was just sounds without meaning. Around six years of age, I realised words were used to represent things and to communicate. By linking people’s speech to their behaviour, I began to understand the symbolic nature of language, which helped me communicate.
Because of sensory and movement differences, autistic people with complex communication needs require support to communicate, do routine activities and participate socially.
For instance, physical touch to our hand, arm or shoulder provides feedback on our position, balance and movement to help us point to pictures, spell or type. Support workers also help us focus and remain calm so we can communicate.
Myth 2: We don’t understand your mind
Autistic people, especially those with complex communication needs, need extra time to decode, make sense of, and abstract meaning from experiences.
But with effort and time, many autistic nonspeakers can empathise and understand other people’s minds.
This can involve using social stories to understand mental and emotional states. These teach us about social situations and how to participate. They can be used to describe what to expect ahead of time. They can give us time to rehearse, and we can draw on them during the situation in real life.
For example, when meeting someone for the first time, we may feel overwhelmed. We use a social story to know what to expect, to sit at a comfortable distance to introduce ourselves, to ask and respond to questions. The story helps us process new information, and suggests how to tell people when we are overloaded and need space to chill.
Giving us the time, space and permission to process social situations helps us navigate social life.
Myth 3: We rock, hum and sometimes scream or run off for no reason
Autistic people, especially those with complex communication needs, can feel unsafe in busy environments. For example, bright lights or noises from people talking and moving around cause sensory overload and distress. This leads to increased stress levels and a reduced ability to respond appropriately.
Autistic nonspeakers may use various strategies to manage the overload and lessen this sensory distress. This may include lying down, staring at blinking lights or revolving objects, humming to block out overwhelming sensations, as well as rocking, spinning or weaving our bodies to restore a sense of balance. These behaviours allow us to self-regulate.
However, when these strategies are insufficient, autistic nonspeakers may behave in unconventional ways such as screaming, running off or having meltdowns.
Such behaviours do not arise because we don’t understand how to act appropriately. They occur when we feel highly unsafe and anxious in demanding situations.
When a quiet space is available, we will be able to chill and regain feelings of safety and control, without resorting to concerning behaviours.
Personal Note:
I was non speaking for about a year following a tongue replacement operation. During that time I was often treated as intellectually disabled.
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Thank you for breaking these things down especially from the perspective you have outlined . My little sister was a non verbal long before technology aides existed to help her. Due to my parents developed outdated atitudes, My mother sheltered her from all most everyone in the family . During those years and the outdated atitudes that pervailed then.
Mom did not want her interacting even with others . Even with intent for very innocent play. Focused on keeping her in close proximity to her. BUT she could not watch all the time and I watched on several occasions my older brothers abuse her physically . And mentally . But as they were my older brothers they made a joint effort to convince my parents that I was fabricating these details , and so In turn , I became abused by these developing older sibling psychopaths.
And even though I was young and could not have developed references to fabricate. It did not matter . Resulting in more severe abuse to myself including by my parents. Setting up patterns for myself in later years . Oddly enough,
I became sensatized to ,what seemed like intuiting other peoples intents , before they might act on them. Without the effort. Just avoiding being in their proximity before they acted.Tried to shelter my younger sister from this but had no support . Eventually through carrot and stick type of training my younger sister. Did eventually move out into a group home.And my mom detecting my long term concerns was nice enough to take us to a McDonalds Hamburger place to show me that she was cleaning floors there. Which appeared with close supervision. She functioned.in her twenties .
Although In my teens had a friend of mine , whom was of a rather High IQ , whom became employed as assistant pharmacy tech.And due to his perseveration in his employment. Acquainted me with different drugs and their applications . Had become familiar just out of habit trying to collect knowledge on new things in my environment at home.Due to my friends knowledge and interest ,I confirmed with him about knowledge of chemical restraints.
Thorozine and Haldol .Finding them in Mom medicine cabinet in the bathroom,with my Little Sisters name on the script. Imagine my concern, upon discovering the Doctor who oversaw , my little sisters care was having mom feed her these daily . At a young age. And being alittle rebellious at that age myself at 14 years old.Got up the courage to confront her on this. And explain ,what I had learned. And get her to conceptualize the stunting effect it might have on Little Sisters learning abilities. And saw curiousity with the fringes of understanding in the face of my mother. Later on without explaining to me by anyone .My sister started to become more functional, then she started to attend a school for severely learning disabled .And I never saw a trace of that prescription again.Think my mom was ashamed for not looking farther into the drugs that the doctor had been using on my sister. Then she banded with other parents, And started the beginning groundwork for the Association for ret*d Children( ARC ) in the Los Angeles area at that time. Obviously society had not been able to seperate concepts of learning disabled people back then. She held fundraisers and garages sales to fund the beginnings of that Org. With help of other parents too. Even then she did not seem to wish others in the family to be apart of it. Think she finally figured out about abuse of my Sister. By my older brothers,And as I had demostrated previously my interests in confirm questionable information( early critical thinking) ,I had about behaviours of my siblings and parents. She did not want me to say anything to the members of her new group ARC , inadvertantly, about the use of chemical restraints and abuses upon my sister and myself. As she was one of the earliest founding members of ARC
Interesting Now I think back on it how all that Played out.
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