Gay masculinity

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I find modern gay culture to be disdainful and makes gay men look bad. Gay men need a warrior like masculinity that's militaristic and promotes comradeship that rejects the soft gay culture and promotes masculine male bonds and rejects the feminine influence and hypersexual porn brained pride culture that's promoted among the progressive left because the gay culture that we have is a reason why we are hated.

Framing of things is important, but I caution, careful that you don't reframe something such that it then also can be seen as toxic by someone. I think good natured and wise would be better than militaristic, no?

I know gay and lesbian couples in long term relationships that have raised families.
The gay couple I know has a high wage earner. They adopted a young black girl and brought her to the company picnic outing.

Good natured, militaristic, and manly.

It's quite oxymoron ain't it?

I'm a gay myself and I think this is why I didn't accept my sexuality until I was nearly 30. As I don't fit the stereotype whatsoever and gay culture makes me kind of cringe. Also growing up in a rural area during the 90s, with a lot of homophobia around did not help

Manly and masculine. And also, not giving into the neo liberal ideology.

When you’ve moved beyond the usual left vs. right lens and start looking at things through something completely new, those old divisions become irrelevant. From a syncretocratic perspective, ideology often feels like a shortcut — “I don’t understand this, therefore I must label it.” usually that label is in the negative fabric, That kind of reduction makes everything smaller than it really is.

I’ve often wondered how and when LGBT identity became so politically charged(ofcasue i do know this and it wasn't recent there's just been a resurgence in the last 10 years). What began as people simply wanting to live authentically somehow got absorbed into the machinery of politics, where labels and factions took precedence over lived reality. In a syncretocratic view, identity should be part of the larger human fabric, not a pawn in ideological battles.

The deeper question isn’t about aligning with left or right, but about how we create systems that respect complexity instead of forcing everything into binary molds.

I like to meet people on the golf course. It doesn't take long to find out who can play golf and who can't.

Sometimes you can tell someone is a good golfer just by hearing a perfectly executed golf swing. Whoa, who hit that one?

"Militaristic" implies aggression, which conflicts with being "good natured".