MaxE wrote:
All of them relatively young (early 40s or younger) women who would be considered attractive or at least know how to make themselves attractive i.e. to men. A lot of them seem to be recently diagnosed.
I haven't studied this phenomena in great detail (and Chatgpt won't help) so take this with a grain of salt. but young female influencers who seem to have the most male (and female) followers appear to my eyes to be coming across like cartoon Daria or her friend Jane
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daria"unintentionally" petite quirky (mixed in with being a little bit oddball and unconventional - could be Goth/emo/punk/tattoo chick spends her day podcasting and/or playing video games like a cosplay/gamer girl), quick witted and (crucially) comes across like a confident introvert who (despite not trying) are attractive and hot but in a understated way like they don't really care or it doesn't matter to them.
I think that type of profile for a young female throwing in they are also a little "neurodivergent" is kind of rebellious and cool.
However, this doesn't work as well for male Aspies.