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Anon109
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Today, 9:06 am

I cheated on my boyfriend apparently my mom told him two days ago but I saw her phone and didn’t see she called him Then he texted me regularly for a day Then next day he said I don’t want to talk to you again. I even texted him today saying why? I didn’t have closure. I’m not even sure my mom even told him. What is this all about? What should I do? I have a serial cheating problem because of my autism and this happened so many times and I don’t know what to do?



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Today, 9:13 am

Yes , and am not so sure ,I would blame it on autism ? Infidelity can be a thing all by itself .


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Today, 9:35 am

Jakki wrote:
Yes , and am not so sure ,I would blame it on autism ? Infidelity can be a thing all by itself .

I keep texting him for me to tell my side of the story but he’s not texting back what should I do?



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Today, 9:48 am

Am not sure there is anything you can do ? Sorry to say , " It is not likely you can control his mind."
Practice monogamy ? apologize ? and hope alot . Give him time , you give him proof ? idk how to do that .
Depends on your maturity level maybe ? All I can do is wish you luck. Find friends who value monogamy .?
Does anybody write anymore, Write him a letter or send a card ? but that from my perspective . If you care more about sex ..? go join a swingers club , and do not involve your parents or their household ? depending on their valuess. ,


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Today, 10:12 am

I don't think cheating is an autistic trait but you do seem quite unable to know many social boundaries, which probably explains why your parents protect you so much. You don't seem to really know what you're doing.

I'm sorry this is a bit harsh.


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