kraftiekortie wrote:
It does rise in the east.
Maybe it's true that autistic people, on average, have less children than non-autistic people. But I don't believe it has anything to do with their biology. It has to do with many factors other than biology. It might be biology if there is a co-morbid chromosomal disorder associated with their autism.
Therefore, when I, as an autistic person, read the results of these studies, I don't go by them. They are irrelevant to me.
I wish people would not believe that autistic people are "defective" in some way, because they are allegedly "less fertile" than non-autistic people.
This is the crux of the problem----this assumption of "defectiveness." An assumption that people with autism are genetically "defective." I am NOT genetically defective. I would be proud to pass my genes over to any kid I create with my woman.
Autism is certainly a defect though. I wouldn't want to have kids on the off chance it'll be autistic and have to endure a life of feeling alienated from society and not being able to feel connected with anyone.
How are we honestly going to improve our lives when we can't even admit the barriers in our way and the problems that have caused them?
(not looking at you) But it gets tiring when people here post about the barriers and hurdles autism have caused them on the dating market and then being immediately invalidated by people saying these problems don't exist and speaking of them might offend others on the forum who are having bigger issues with dating.
This is a theme that keeps rearing it's head here in L&D and the threads just turn into waffling drivel which doesn't even make any sense.