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19 Dec 2007, 11:09 pm

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Try simpler goals then. Then, when you do those, try bigger ones. That's all I can think of. My advice isn't that great...

*sigh*


You seem intelligent. I find it difficult to imagine that you can't handle schoolwork.


I just can't do maths. -_-'



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19 Dec 2007, 11:10 pm

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Sorry about what I just said, I thought this was just some thing random. SORRY SORRY SORRY!! !! :cry:


I'm glad I saw your 2nd post, I was just about to write something nasty, your not a bad guy though.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:12 pm

Spacey,

Hang in there. Find the one thing that helps you feel safe.

I like to curl up in my bed, with all of my blankets on top for the weight, and listen to CDs and nap...I have a little vacation from everyone. I stay away from everyone, and draw, or I write in my journal. I just don't deal with people, or think at all about the future. I stay in the moment.

My favorite is crawling into my bed.

If you can wait this bad spell out, you will feel better. Sometimes it takes a couple of hours, or sometimes days.

Is the holiday bringing you down? This time of year is bad, especially for us.

Take care, Rjaye.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:12 pm

I think that would be an insult to the memory of the one who you said had showed you the damage taking your life does to others.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:13 pm

I'm here if you ever need to talk, SpaceCase.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:14 pm

Spacecase- I always think about this when i'm depressed, if i'd found an easy way i'd have done it by now. My life is like torture, cause of what goes on inside my head. I try to laugh at even the bad stuff, try and make a joke out of everything. Just try and find ways to cope, untill you get the life you deserve one day.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:15 pm

benjimanbreeg wrote:
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Sorry about what I just said, I thought this was just some thing random. SORRY SORRY SORRY!! !! :cry:


I'm glad I saw your 2nd post, I was just about to write something nasty, your not a bad guy though.


I thought this was just some kind of list thing on ways to kill yourself. I really don't think before I say things do I? So I screw everything up. :cry:



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19 Dec 2007, 11:17 pm

Boredom. Boredom is the best way to die.

The quickest way to die is to be disparaging. Being inconsolable helps to speed the process along.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:17 pm

retropolismetropolis wrote:
benjimanbreeg wrote:
retropolismetropolis wrote:
Sorry about what I just said, I thought this was just some thing random. SORRY SORRY SORRY!! !! :cry:


I'm glad I saw your 2nd post, I was just about to write something nasty, your not a bad guy though.


I thought this was just some kind of list thing on ways to kill yourself. I really don't think before I say things do I? So I screw everything up. :cry:


Hey, it's alright. You apologised. It's all good. Just be a bit more careful next time, alright?



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19 Dec 2007, 11:18 pm

retropolismetropolis wrote:
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Sorry about what I just said, I thought this was just some thing random. SORRY SORRY SORRY!! !! :cry:


I'm glad I saw your 2nd post, I was just about to write something nasty, your not a bad guy though.


I thought this was just some kind of list thing on ways to kill yourself. I really don't think before I say things do I? So I screw everything up. :cry:


No you don't, cause you apologised. And it was a mistake anyway, I always do things like that. Don't worry about it, you're alright mate.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:20 pm

I think I'll log off and calm down before I say something else really stupid. I'm feeling very guilty.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:20 pm

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Life throws us all off the horse sometimes. You've just gotta prove to the ground that your tougher.


The ground doesn't care.

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Try simpler goals then. Then, when you do those, try bigger ones.


What if your youth is running out and you don't have much time?

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I think that's up to you. I do not believe in destiny or fate. I think our live's value is what we make it, and failure to do so is our responsibility.


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It all seems pointless. We're all going to die anyway.

If I hang on it's partly out of habit or instinct. I would also hate to let my parents down. My brothers might not like the idea of me dead either. I also cannot manage to kill my hope off entirely; there's always a glimmer.

If I were you, try and ride out this rough patch. Do something else and get your mind off your current mood. Come back to your problems tomorrow once your head is clear. Things might not appear so bad then.


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19 Dec 2007, 11:22 pm

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[What if your youth is running out and you don't have much time?


Mhm... You have a point.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:23 pm

SpaceCase, how and why did your lifetime goals go away? Is there a reason you can't find them, or find more exactly like them, or find better ones? :)



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19 Dec 2007, 11:27 pm

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I think I'll log off and calm down before I say something else really stupid. I'm feeling very guilty.


Now I feel guilty, sorry man. My life's full of regrets everyday. You aren't alone, don't be so hard on yourself.



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19 Dec 2007, 11:42 pm

I don't really know much about you except you're a writer and an anime/manga fan. From what I can sense, you are sweet girl. Why let a bunch of stupid people get you down when we all know how much better you are than them? And don't worry about your goals. Part of reaching goals is trying to figure out how to do them, reach them, and find them again when they get lost. Keep your chin up, SpaceCase. You can do it. We know you can. Accept the good things people say and ignore everything negative people say about you. They don't know anything.
I'm sure most people on this site has been teased or picked on in some shape or form in their lives. You're not alone. Many people here are willing to offer a shoulder for you to cry on and are willing to listen to what you have to say. I'm here for you, SpaceCase. Please don't kill yourself. The world needs more ASD people. And besides, we all think you're so special!! !! Spread the love!! !! !! !! -Power Girl