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CockneyRebel
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30 Jan 2008, 10:12 pm

You've got to live. I don't want you to die.


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30 Jan 2008, 10:19 pm

No, please don't do it! You're a very special girl, SpaceCase!


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31 Jan 2008, 5:18 am

Don't give up.

You're still young, and things that happen then come to pass. It might seem important now, but it won't be in 5 years, please, please, give it a chance.



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31 Jan 2008, 5:52 am

Please don't die. we all like you. we don't want you gone. :cry: :cry: please...someone if you can contact her parents. I have no way to do ti. this is serious.



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31 Jan 2008, 5:53 am

Spacecase io know that stuff like sexuality can be very tough to deal with I am questioning at the moment and it is very confusing thats for sure. Hang in there and know there are other aspies in a similar situation to you.



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31 Jan 2008, 6:41 am

Suicide doesn't only end sadness...but also any chance at happiness.

If you want to give up that chance, then go ahead, no one can stop you. If you want to be happy again, then stay alive and wait for things to change. If they don't change...then you will have to make the change yourself...but it's worth your life!

Every person is valuable regardless or age, gender, race, sexual orientation, employment status, health status etc...my point is, you are valuable. Even if you can't see it, many here can and that MUST mean that it's true.


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31 Jan 2008, 7:42 am

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The possibilities are endless.


That's the company slogan of the government department my mum works for. But anyway.

I'm going to shout here from the outside of this bubble and you're not going to hear me but I'm going to do my best.

Don't do anything daft SpaceCase, OK? No-one here can ultimately prevent you doing what is in your gift. There are people out there that love you. You are fully accepted by many people here. Your mother is part of a backward, unaccepting system. If you do yourself in the people who hate you will gloat because they have won but the people that do love you will be immensely saddened.

I'd love to say "come and live with me!" but unfortunately that simply isn't practical no matter how much it might benefit you. I probably haven't talked to you on IM nearly as much as I should have done and for that I apologise. I have my own personal worries at the moment but to be fair they are absolutely miniscule in comparison to what you must be going through. It's winter at the moment and it's a miserable time of year for many people. I had my grandad die a few weeks ago and a friend of ours is dying of cancer. Life stabs you in the back and grins at your pains sometimes.

You know where I am OK? I'll open up Adium later (when you wake) and we can talk 'til the cows come home if you like.



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31 Jan 2008, 2:00 pm

Please post space we dont want you gone :(

hang in there, remember that at 18 you can just leave and make your own life and live it the way you want. Wouldn't that be grand? Hang in there!



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31 Jan 2008, 6:59 pm

Can someone PLEASE figure out how to contact her parents????



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31 Jan 2008, 7:05 pm

ShadesOfMe wrote:
Can someone PLEASE figure out how to contact her parents????


Forget about it, the mother is monstrously unsympathetic.

But we care.


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31 Jan 2008, 7:08 pm

Quatermass wrote:
ShadesOfMe wrote:
Can someone PLEASE figure out how to contact her parents????


Forget about it, the mother is monstrously unsympathetic.

But we care.


Yes, But her parents can actually do something about her contemplating suicide. We aren't near her. we can't help. her parents should be contacted. it doesn't matter how unsympathetic they are, they need to know.



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01 Feb 2008, 12:01 pm

Spacecase I am new here but feel the way you feel right now. Please pm me or email me for a talk.
I don't like to think of you in pain.
Please post a reply even so the other members can have a chat with you.
Take care
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01 Feb 2008, 2:16 pm

personally I say screw her parents. If I knew where she lived id've jumped on a plane the moment I read that.

Space pls post we're all worried :(



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02 Feb 2008, 8:07 pm

Yes please post....we're worried.



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02 Feb 2008, 9:07 pm

has anybody heard from her?



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02 Feb 2008, 9:31 pm

Come on, SpaceCase - speak up, please! We want to know you're there! Even a rant at the world would be good. :)