sleazes coming onto you

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Dont you have any friends.

I felt compelled to stand up for some of the good hearted guys I know
I had friends who say women like that
I am not perfect-but I would never treat a woman like that
I have never dated or anything-I don't even talk to them in real life-not all men are perverted selfish pigs
some-like me, have a weird, shy view about it and just keep away from them all together
which is fine-I won't annoy them-better for them I'd say

The only real difference between "flirting" and "harassment" is whether or not it's welcome by the recipient. Trying to flirt with girls can be very risky, because they're more likely to interpret it as harassment.

Let's see, if a guy comes onto a woman, he's a sleaze. If he doesn't, then he's a wimp. I would have to decline, given this dismal set of choices! The same women who are quick to label men as "sleaze" might also complain a day later about how there aren't any "real men" who have the courage to approach them. Of course men who approach you have sex somewhere in their attention, even if it's only in the distant background. Odds are they already have friends and co-workers they can talk to about engines, computers, and other nonsexual items.

So, is there a third option? How do men get into marriages and relationships with women without being branded a sleaze?

I was just wondering the same thing lol

Trigger11 Not all women are nice.. I know but the fact is the mens prison are full of Paedophiles, women bashers and rapists
The womens prison however is full of women who have been sexually abused as children and most are drug addicts committed crimes to support there habit
I suprised in prison cause I seemed the only one there that didnt come in as a junkie.

hey I am not denying a lot of men are sleazes-and a lot of them are
but not all of them are
I am not a sleaze
and I pride myself for not reducing myself to the level of other men
(and if it was my way anyone who rapped would be put to death)

I have told this story before, but it seems relevant to this discussion.

My first night in the dorms at the University of Miami we had a party in my room. My roommate had come to the summer program and already knew people, so he invited them all over. There was this girl, Jennifer, who was from Iowa and she was quite attractive. Everyone was drinking, except me, because I don't drink alcohol. I can't stand the taste. Anyway, I had a pretty good time talking to Jennifer while she was sober. As the night wore on, she got pretty hammered. Several guys were trying to hit on her, and one even offered to take her back to his room. Her roommate and I decided we should help her get back to her room. We took her back to her room and helped her get into bed, which included taking off her outer layer of clothes at her request. She asked me to stay the night, but I declined. As attracted to her as I was, I felt I would have been taking advantage of her. The next morning, we ran into each other in the lobby of the dorm and she came up to me and slapped me. She said she was offended, because I didn't sleep with her. I was ridiculed by all the guys on my floor too for being a wuss. I was 17-years old and this was my introduction to the male-female relationship.

Rapist dont get put to death. Not even paedophiles. One or two years jail, max 5.
It makes me sick and then screws put the young boys in protection so they are protected.
Paedophiles are in protection.
Screws are paedophiles.
They made me go into maxium with a paedophile woman. Who wasnt in protection area.
When I come in she kept trying to hang herself n got locked down in the suicide cell.
Ha Ha Ha the screws had there hands full there.
Ive caused or 'she's caused alot of trouble that one' heard em say
I love it I just love it.

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I protect myself very well.. Im not naive
I wonder.. are children