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blitzkrieg
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06 Oct 2023, 4:20 am

nick007 wrote:
WantToHaveALife wrote:
because 99 percent of women will never start an interaction with a guy first
Some wonen don't initiate friendship with guys due to guys tending to assume the woman must be interested in more. Women don't want to get blamed for leading a guy on. However fewer women initiating friendship with guys will contribute to guys having that assumption.


It works the other way too. Women often suspect men of having ulterior motives, even when a man is simply seeking friendship with a woman.


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06 Oct 2023, 6:47 am

No one is obligated to be friends with anyone else. People can choose to be friends (or not) for any reason.


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09 Nov 2023, 6:05 pm

TwilightPrincess wrote:
Where did you get that number from?


just a sarcastic number assumption, i know its not accurate. There is no denying the fact that majority of women will never start an interaction with a guy they like.