I used to hang around with a bunch of people who called themselves 'real goths', but seemed a lot more like Emos. They kinda blended in with the stoners partially. Then I p*ssed off the dominant male and his girlfriend, and was outcast.
Now I hang around with the kids in the library, and I prefer it so much more. Pretending to listen to Bring Me The Horizon was extremely painful, and set off at least three meltdowns. Now, I can talk about LOTR characters and Supernatural demons all I want.