Worried that I'll never have my first kiss

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06 Jun 2023, 8:58 am

I rejoined the world of dating apps. Welp. Here we go again.

Realistically though I'll need other approaches as well. Apps tend to be... yeah...not the best.

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06 Jun 2023, 9:21 am

Don't worry about it. Kissing is highly overrated.

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06 Jun 2023, 6:11 pm

My kiss with Robbie was definitely passionate

He had me pinned to a wall with his mouth wide open and on mine (French kissing)

I guess kinda like in romantic movies or TV shows

I may not be married but I can say that I have experienced passionate kissing and came VERY close to sex!

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07 Jun 2023, 6:53 am

Well I have three matches so far. One of my matches wants to play video games and video chat. Which could be fun, it would be interesting to play co-op with someone besides my mates for once. Quite the height difference. She's 5'1 whereas I'm 5'8.

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My friend isn't having much luck in the dating department. I wish I could help him somehow. He has loads of matches, but he's only ever met three of them and each time was a disaster. I don't understand how he's managed to end up with so many matches, it's to the point of ridiculousness and I've suggested he delete the dead chats. He's cut it down somewhat, but there's still loads. You'd think if it was just a numbers game, he'd be doing well but so many of the conversations go nowhere. I think it's because he doesn't like travelling but you kind of have to do so. Otherwise it's next to impossible to meet anyone. Especially when you're gay. Still, he lives in the city! I'm surprised he isn't finding anyone. However, I'll admit I don't know that many gay or bisexual men in general. I wish I did, then I might be able to help.

Whereas my other friend, well he hasn't had much luck since his ex girlfriend dumped him. Still, he's doing well for himself and I suspect he'll meet someone soon enough.

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07 Jun 2023, 7:12 pm

If all else fails, you can kiss a guy Fonzie style. Just go up to a guy that you think is really hot and kiss him.

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08 Jun 2023, 6:12 am

I tend to just feel indifferent towards men. Personally I've never felt like kissing a guy. However, if I ever did, I'd just start identifying as bisexual rather than gay.

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08 Jun 2023, 10:19 am

Lost_dragon wrote:

I'd just start identifying as bisexual

That could be a turn-on for prospective men

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08 Jun 2023, 10:44 am

Honey69 wrote:

Lost_dragon wrote:

I'd just start identifying as bisexual

That could be a turn-on for prospective men

It seems unlikely that I'd find myself liking a man. Which is a shame because I've always thought the bisexual flag is quite a nice design. Plenty of opportunities for puns as well. Oh well. The lesbian flag is pretty nice as well though (imo). If I ever ended up dating a bisexual in the future, maybe we could have two flags on the wall.

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08 Jun 2023, 10:47 am

Lost_dragon wrote:

I tend to just feel indifferent towards men. Personally I've never felt like kissing a guy. However, if I ever did, I'd just start identifying as bisexual rather than gay.

I wouldn't necessarily rethink how you identify unless it's something with actual interest. Having a sample doesn't mean you need to sign up for the meal plan, so to speak.

If there's a non-woman who catches your fancy, it might be worth a try; then again, no reason to assume it'll ever happen.

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09 Jun 2023, 5:38 am

funeralxempire wrote:

Lost_dragon wrote:

I tend to just feel indifferent towards men. Personally I've never felt like kissing a guy. However, if I ever did, I'd just start identifying as bisexual rather than gay.

When I was 17 I engaged in snogging a couple of times with a girl my age who later came out. Apparently she was attracted to me at least to some exent.

Much later, a lesbian 7 years younger than I asked me on a date which included snogging, which she initiated and seemed to enjoy, although there was no repeat "performance". I didn't fully come to terms with her sexuality until later. Still a very strange experience, I have no idea why she did what she did. I couldn't have done that with a guy.

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09 Jun 2023, 11:04 am

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I'm not really sure what we'll talk about in the conversation. Small talk I suppose. It's been a while since I last played Stardew Valley, so it'll be interesting playing it again. Even if she flakes, I could always play it on my own anyway.

Granted, I could do with some more outdoor hobbies.

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09 Jun 2023, 11:18 am

I am 33 and in my 20s I got to kiss some girls. Never had sex though so I will probably end up the 40 year old virgin.

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11 Jun 2023, 6:07 am

Lost_dragon wrote:

My friend isn't having much luck in the dating department. I wish I could help him somehow. He has loads of matches, but he's only ever met three of them and each time was a disaster.

I don't understand how he's managed to end up with so many matches, it's to the point of ridiculousness and I've suggested he delete the dead chats. He's cut it down somewhat, but there's still loads. You'd think if it was just a numbers game, he'd be doing well but so many of the conversations go nowhere. I think it's because he doesn't like travelling but you kind of have to do so.

Otherwise it's next to impossible to meet anyone. Especially when you're gay. Still, he lives in the city! I'm surprised he isn't finding anyone. However, I'll admit I don't know that many gay or bisexual men in general. I wish I did, then I might be able to help.

I have since found out that he is in a rather complicated situationship. So this isn't entirely accurate.

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11 Jun 2023, 9:29 pm

MaxE wrote:

funeralxempire wrote:

Lost_dragon wrote:

I tend to just feel indifferent towards men. Personally I've never felt like kissing a guy. However, if I ever did, I'd just start identifying as bisexual rather than gay.

She was bi-curious, at least back then.

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13 Jun 2023, 11:49 am

Strange that in the past I have kissed lady's but never had sex

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