Yes you can be nice to people and tell them what they want to hear . But if you have some caring for them . It may not
always be good to a person, to consistently trying to be just good to their feelings if something is off . Been confronted with that alot ,over the years .It did not always turn out well . So being polite and possibly misleading a person . Can be a tough line to cross or not . It is a practiced art, and sometimes just backing out of a conversation or a polite change of topic. Can help you out of those situations . Or than occassionally, excuse me please, I need to use the restroom . Can help . If I think a person can handle it ,and if , I am quick enough to make a analogy. A similiar topic and and situation, Or veiwpoint to theirs . And ask them what they would do or think , in such a situation.?
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