I Think You All Hate Me...

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Postperson
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04 Feb 2008, 3:33 am

I can smell a group hug coming.

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04 Feb 2008, 4:11 am

Postperson wrote:

I can smell a group hug coming.

Sorry I forgot to shower this morning.
Come here you
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04 Feb 2008, 5:01 am

Kalister1 wrote:

Postperson wrote:

I can smell a group hug coming.

Sorry I forgot to shower this morning.
Come here you
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Sorry, I dropped a vial full of hydrogen sulphide.

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04 Feb 2008, 5:18 am

Berserker wrote:

At least you don't hate me. If you did, I'd be scared!

Was that for me? Why would you be scared if I did not like ya anyways...

Just curious, I am not like huge or mean or anything.

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04 Feb 2008, 12:28 pm

there was a time that I've felt the same way, that you did. I've almost quit coming here. I've decided to keep coming, because I need this place.

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04 Feb 2008, 1:23 pm

pakled wrote:

I know there's a temptation to either think the world loves you, or the world hates you. In all honesty, the world doesn't care.

AArgh!! !

That is so wrong. 97% people in the world do care.
Humans can have feeding frenzies when they are in "packs". They pick on people who are different in some way, or are down emotionally. This is a way people hide so they don't get attacked themselves. One on one, people sometimes act like they don't care, because they don't want to get ambushed emotionally, and hurt.
People usually don't show that they really do care until after they get to know each other. But in emergencies or disasters, love really comes out in the open. Love for each other also becomes more apparent when caring people find someone who is vulnerable.
In other words, there are lots of people out there that want to care about you, and want to help you, but most don't know you need them.
Berserker seems very sweet to me.

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04 Feb 2008, 2:20 pm

Quatermass wrote:

Kalister1 wrote:

Postperson wrote:

I can smell a group hug coming.

Sorry I forgot to shower this morning.
Come here you
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Sorry, I dropped a vial full of hydrogen sulphide.

You aren't invited.

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04 Feb 2008, 3:34 pm

Mudboy wrote:

pakled wrote:

I know there's a temptation to either think the world loves you, or the world hates you. In all honesty, the world doesn't care.

AArgh!! !

They also might take to emotionally attacking you one on one just because they don't want to be hurt.

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04 Feb 2008, 4:19 pm

Berserker wrote:

Thanks guys. I feel slightly better.

I guess this feeling of being hated stems from the times I got picked on at Australian forums. I felt like they all hated me.

Sorry to hear you've been having a rough time. Many of us don't hate you, I promise.

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04 Feb 2008, 5:50 pm

pbcoll wrote:

Berserker wrote:

Thanks guys. I feel slightly better.

I guess this feeling of being hated stems from the times I got picked on at Australian forums. I felt like they all hated me.

Sorry to hear you've been having a rough time. Many of us don't hate you, I promise.

But like I said earlier, if any of us hate him it's not actually his fault. He's only responsible for what he does, not how others react to him.

And I'm sorry to hear that they were so rough to him on that forum. Sometimes fear of those that are different mixed with lack of understanding can make people stupid. And as a Christian, I can tell you that hatred of another person is stupid.

btw, I don't know if any of you knows this, but while the bible is used to justify hatred, it says that hating another person is akin to murdering them in your heart.

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04 Feb 2008, 6:47 pm

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It certainly feels like it... What did I do to deserve to be hated?

I feel unsafe now, like people are out to get me...

weird thats how i feel. You know it could be schzophrenia, im worried we both should talk to a real doctor maby. I dont hate you how could i hate you theres no motive for it, i think you dislike your self which causes you to feel like you dont deserve to be loved. This really helps me to answer this for you cause it helps me acknowledge that my own self loathing pushs people away. I know this might not make sence, but think bout it, oh and say things you like about yourself and ask someone what they like about you, who knows you might get a surprise. Seriously i hope you feel loved

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