I am sick of older women being interested in me

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09 Jun 2023, 2:03 am

I am sick. Period.

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09 Jun 2023, 2:28 am

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I suppose I'm lucky in that mostly people my own age find me attractive but if there's an age gap it'll lean more towards being older women rather than younger women.

I find it a bit unusual but other than that, pretty harmless. The problem with autism is that it appears most "regular" folk are not attracted to it so we're often left with having only the extremes interested in us and nothing much in-between. Religious crazies, mentally unstable, massive age gaps, unfortunate looks, this all seems to pop up much more frequently with people on the spectrum.

How old are you?

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09 Jun 2023, 3:02 am

Jamesy wrote:

Nades wrote:

How old are you?

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09 Jun 2023, 5:41 am

Nades wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Nades wrote:

How old are you?

Someone told me that the reason older women are attracted to me is because they have less options.

What are your opinions about that?

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09 Jun 2023, 6:28 am

I tend to have a potentially misguided perception that the M-F ratio is 9 to 1 everywhere. I assume that the reason for older females saying the first word is because advances towards them possibly decline, as they age.

20 year females are just too immature and disgusting for my liking. I tend to see bodies as gross in general. But some just more so than others, regardless of age. There are opinions circulating that NDs are far from being angels, and that some NTs can literally be less undesirable to interact with on occasion. Rare for me to find evidence of such, since their presets are more or less the same with most, at first glance at least. It's the second time I've put this opinion into words in the last 7 days.

I think for a lady to be interested in meself, they would have to boast a super-rare genetic condition, along with several other disorders. I feel like I go way beyond standard levels of intolerability, even on a good day.

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17 Jun 2023, 4:46 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:

You don't like older women, but you want 20 year old women to like older men?

Explain.

I'm not the OP. Here's how I interpreted his post though:

He appeared to be saying "I have a hard enough time attracting a woman my own age. As for attracting a younger woman? Forget about it."

I get the impression he'd be ok with his own age group or younger; just not older.

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17 Jun 2023, 4:49 pm

Jamesy wrote:

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It's OK if you don't like older women.
You just have to accept young women might not like older men.

What about women my own age? Might they prefer 18/20 year old guys?

In my early 20s, I was with some women well above your current age.

My advice: Give older women a chance. Being with an older woman really isn't as bad as you make it out to be. Plus, how can you knock it if you haven't tried it?

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18 Jun 2023, 9:48 am

Most 20 year old girls aren't going to be interested in 33 year old men. They would probably judge you as a creepy predator, or as a loser who can't attract women his own age. This is especially true if you look your age and/or you're fat and out of shape.

The only way I could see this working is if the 33 year old man was conventionally attractive, legitimately looked 10 years younger, and the girl in question was looking for a hookup or one night stand.

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18 Jun 2023, 10:33 am

SkinnyElephant wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

It's OK if you don't like older women.
You just have to accept young women might not like older men.

What about women my own age? Might they prefer 18/20 year old guys?

Older ladies bodies don’t tend to be as in good condition as women in their 30s. That and the ones I know who find me attractive don’t want sex which is another negative.

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18 Jun 2023, 10:40 am

Muse933277 wrote:

I remember David Beckham well into his 30s could attract 20 year old women but then he’s better looking than me.

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18 Jun 2023, 10:42 am

mrpieceofwork wrote:

I am sick. Period.

Yeah I get sick when I'm on my period sometimes. Full stop.

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18 Jun 2023, 10:44 am

Me drinking beer/alcoholic beverages on the weekends has probably made me look years older which could explain why the elderly ladies like me.

In other words I am my own worst enemy.

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18 Jun 2023, 1:44 pm

Jamesy wrote:

Muse933277 wrote:

I remember David Beckham well into his 30s could attract 20 year old women but then he’s better looking than me.

The fact David Beckham is a famous athlete obviously helped.

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18 Jun 2023, 1:47 pm

Jamesy wrote:

SkinnyElephant wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

IsabellaLinton wrote:

It's OK if you don't like older women.
You just have to accept young women might not like older men.

What about women my own age? Might they prefer 18/20 year old guys?

Older ladies bodies don’t tend to be as in good condition as women in their 30s. That and the ones I know who find me attractive don’t want sex which is another negative.

Obviously an older woman won't have the body of a 23 year old. That's fine by me (but is a deal breaker for some). If it's a deal breaker for you, so be it.

I must say, I'm shocked the ones who find you attractive don't want sex. I'm not saying a relationship is all about sex. However, if you get involved with a partner, there's generally sex.

Are they simply complimenting your looks (and not looking for anything with you)? That's what it sounds like.

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18 Jun 2023, 2:01 pm

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Obviously an older woman won't have the body of a 23 year old.

More likely but not obviously, till some age extent.
Gal Gadot for instance is in better shape than a lot of 20s; and I see a lot of women in 30-40s in better shape than a lot of 20s in the gym.
Actually, I think younger people are more susceptible to get very obese. Older people had more time to achieve their ideal balancing diet and self control.
Yes older people are more likely to get a beer belly, but I find extreme obesity to be more common among the youth.

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18 Jun 2023, 2:56 pm

A bit of topic nearly 10 years ago these 2 young women came up to me in a nightclub and started touching my face. One of them said "My friend really fancies you. Do you want to dance?". I then got shy/quiet and they quickly moved.

Do you think that was most likely them having on there 'beer goggles'?

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