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22 May 2024, 11:23 am

DuckHairback wrote:

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Why would he say that

Don't know? There was one incident if heard back in 89 when he was on an aeroplane with friends and the women on the flight made fun of him. Called him gay basically

It was a lads holiday with mates

Does your family just pass down stories of minor grievances like heirlooms? This was before you were born!?

I was born in 89 so it was not before

Back in the 1980s that same guy said about his friends children "Can I see them be washed in the bath"

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22 May 2024, 11:25 am

When I was a teen and a young adult I would say things that made everyone around me cringe all the time and not realize it. Nobody really teaches you how not to do this, you're supposed to just automatically know. :roll:

I guess I should call every guy I see handsome now, whether he is or not, or they'll have yet another reason to hate all women.

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22 May 2024, 11:26 am

^^Okay then, bye.

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22 May 2024, 11:28 am

MoeTrashPanda wrote:

https://www.bustle.com/life/9-things-women-dont-owe-you-70832

https://www.towerhamlets.gov.uk/lgnl/co ... ogyny.aspx

https://psyche.co/guides/how-to-handle- ... nd-move-on

Us men don't owe women the time of day either

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22 May 2024, 11:29 am

Jamesy wrote:

MoeTrashPanda wrote:

https://www.bustle.com/life/9-things-women-dont-owe-you-70832

https://www.towerhamlets.gov.uk/lgnl/co ... ogyny.aspx

https://psyche.co/guides/how-to-handle- ... nd-move-on

Us men don't owe women the time of day either

Woah, one thing you are right about! No one owes anyone anything! Hehe

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22 May 2024, 11:30 am

MoeTrashPanda wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

MoeTrashPanda wrote:

https://www.bustle.com/life/9-things-women-dont-owe-you-70832

https://www.towerhamlets.gov.uk/lgnl/co ... ogyny.aspx

https://psyche.co/guides/how-to-handle- ... nd-move-on

Us men don't owe women the time of day either

Woah, one thing you are right about! No one owes anyone anything! Hehe

Yet you still expect us to

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22 May 2024, 11:32 am

The guy who I was on about back in 2017 shouted at a person in the street "Go back to Pakistan you pakki"

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22 May 2024, 11:33 am

^ Another irrelevant historical nugget.

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22 May 2024, 11:34 am

Jamesy wrote:

MoeTrashPanda wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

MoeTrashPanda wrote:

https://www.bustle.com/life/9-things-women-dont-owe-you-70832

https://www.towerhamlets.gov.uk/lgnl/co ... ogyny.aspx

https://psyche.co/guides/how-to-handle- ... nd-move-on

Us men don't owe women the time of day either

Woah, one thing you are right about! No one owes anyone anything! Hehe

Yet you still expect us to

I don’t know what you’re on about. Most women don’t expect or feel like men owe them anything, including attention.

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22 May 2024, 11:36 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

MoeTrashPanda wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

MoeTrashPanda wrote:

https://www.bustle.com/life/9-things-women-dont-owe-you-70832

https://www.towerhamlets.gov.uk/lgnl/co ... ogyny.aspx

https://psyche.co/guides/how-to-handle- ... nd-move-on

Us men don't owe women the time of day either

Woah, one thing you are right about! No one owes anyone anything! Hehe

Yet you still expect us to

I don’t know what you’re on about. Most women don’t expect or feel like men owe them anything, including attention.

Lots of women/society expect us to flatter you/give you compliments because you are the fairer sex :roll:

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22 May 2024, 11:37 am

Cornflake wrote:

Another irrelevant historical nugget.

He's trying so hard. He just wants to stay upset about something. I should probably leave this convo because it's getting nowhere, but it's so tempting to check-in to see the nonsense hole he is digging get bigger and bigger.

Edit: Like a train-wreck! I cant look away ʕ◉ᴥ◉ʔ

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22 May 2024, 11:41 am

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Lots of women/society expect us to flatter you/give you compliments because you are the fairer sex :roll:

I think your perception of reality might diverge significantly from actual reality.

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22 May 2024, 11:41 am

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Lots of women/society expect us to flatter you/give you compliments because you are the fairer sex :roll:

Ohhhh so you agree that you shouldn't expect people to compliment strangers (like the lady in your original post giving a direct, non-embellished answer to your cousin)? Give it up buddy, it's okay to admit you are wrong.

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22 May 2024, 11:42 am

Jamesy wrote:

Lots of women/society expect us to flatter you/give you compliments because you are the fairer sex :roll:

Mary Poppins is a film, a fiction - not an instruction manual.

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22 May 2024, 11:45 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:

Jamesy wrote:

Lots of women/society expect us to flatter you/give you compliments because you are the fairer sex :roll:

I think your perception of reality might diverge significantly from actual reality.

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22 May 2024, 11:47 am

It’s creepy when strangers compliment me, especially since it’s not always too far removed from sexual harassment OR it reminds me of previous sexual harassment. Genuine compliments among friends are cool - as a giver or receiver and no matter the gender. My female friends have similar thoughts when it comes to this stuff.

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