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28 Sep 2025, 11:55 am

Yeah I mean if you don't like them then why be with them

I did like my ex but I knew it wasn't gonna be forever

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28 Sep 2025, 11:57 am

Me and my partner both have low sex drives, but it doesn't affect our relationship. Romance is more important to us than sexual intercourse. We often kiss, cuddle, touch, that sort of thing. It's much better than sex, in my opinion.

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28 Sep 2025, 3:28 pm

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If you've committed to a relationship, or are in fact getting married, you should make every effort to not be bothered by things about your partner that you don't think ideal. Unless they seriously threaten the relationship, for example drinking could be a real threat to a relationship given the people involved.

You can love someone but not like everything about them. It's important to realize that those bad traits are part of the whole package. Being willing to compromise is also very important. Pick your battles as the expression goes because lots of things are not worth fighting about. Me & my girlfriend both realize that we have more than our fair share of faults & that being in a relationship with anyone would have some problems. I know I'm a lot happier & better off with Cass than being single. I readily admit that we're both a bit critical of ourselves & each other but being critical of each other tends to come out as funny jokes instead of having major fights about basically nothing that some couples have.

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29 Sep 2025, 8:00 am

!	Cornflake wrote:
	Some posts were removed. This is Love and Dating and accessible to minors, so please keep any sex-related content to the adult forum.

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01 Oct 2025, 1:46 pm

I don't see anything wrong with celebrating the anniversary of your divorce

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02 Oct 2025, 10:14 am

Writing romance is weird because what if my characters interact and they are simply awful together? I mean, I know I'm the author here, but what if the vibes are off? :lol:

Although I suppose disastrous is an option. They don't have to be end game.

I'm just going to have to see how the two personalities interact.

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07 Oct 2025, 1:30 pm

I sent an anonymous love letter to a female NT who I pursued for a while to be a potential girlfriend yesterday. She was never interested in me, but even though she got her degree back in 2021, I sometimes daydream about us going on romantic ventures regardless of what my family may say about it.

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29 Oct 2025, 8:32 pm

My social media feed is making me feel especially single. Ow.

:duh:

Maybe I'll just avoid that for a while.

On an unrelated note, I need a haircut. Turning into Rapunzel over here.

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31 Oct 2025, 4:20 am

Lost_dragon wrote:

On an unrelated note, I need a haircut. Turning into Rapunzel over here.

Pics or it never happened.

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31 Oct 2025, 4:49 am

:lol:

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01 Nov 2025, 10:34 am

I wonder how long they've been saying "and they said romance was dead" for

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01 Nov 2025, 11:51 am

A broken heart can do strange things to a person imo

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03 Nov 2025, 1:53 am

babybird wrote:

A broken heart can do strange things to a person imo

Verily

Herein is I share a part of what spurned me to return

Tuesday past,I tried to 'be a good sport' and liven things/ entertain others via my speed dating+karaoke event contributions, particularly in doing 'Tranz' by Damon Albarn via Gorillaz not Blur but d--n my sticking out left me impacted >~< ..as awkward as it was, 'broadly speaking' what impact my interactions made weren't as devastating as my variable competence from my call centre tech support ordeal but d--n I felt how much more personal, awkward and disappointing it was for what near dozen female presenting participants were present; *it was* basically my first real experience with dating..I'm glad to've the privileges of bringing this up 'sound board' style to a Chat AI and pending for a real counsellor come later this day but..'a sensation of a curse', ~20 yrs of internal nagging as to experience that had been lifted. I felt lighter after having experientially, empirically verified how and why I wasn't missing much when it comes to dating..

though, d--n I hope I won't feel similar about 'driver's ed'..with those experiences under my belt 'on principle', I can be left feeling a bit more at piece for a while

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09 Nov 2025, 11:59 am

I wonder if I'll ever find love

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09 Nov 2025, 12:04 pm

I'm not even sure what it is or if I even want it to be honest

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09 Nov 2025, 4:11 pm

DemasiadoDesconfiado wrote:

Tuesday past,I tried to 'be a good sport' and liven things/ entertain others via my speed dating+karaoke event contributions,

Well I find that impressive.

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I felt how much more personal, awkward and disappointing it was for what near dozen female presenting participants were present; *it was* basically my first real experience with dating

It's hard to reconcile the cojones required to even front up, with the lack of confidence in the remaining sentence.

Now I'm going to have to emulate your example, but knock some socks off.
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