"Cheer up! Be happy" UGH!

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BitterGeek
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20 Jul 2009, 11:47 pm

I'm getting the "cheer up, be happy" speech from my mom. I don't think she groks that this is more detrimental than helpful. Every time I go through another bout of depression, the communication between us stops cold because I get sick of her endless cheer leading.

I'm going to e-mail her an article from WebMD on supporting a family member with depression. Hopefully that will help things.



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21 Jul 2009, 12:03 am

Hopefully. Unfortunatley for me, my family dosen't believe I need anti-depressants and some say it's "part of [my] personality".



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21 Jul 2009, 12:48 am

Fickle_Pickle wrote:
Hopefully. Unfortunatley for me, my family dosen't believe I need anti-depressants and some say it's "part of [my] personality".


You need to show your family this:

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/20 ... 094507.htm



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21 Jul 2009, 8:57 am

BitterGeek wrote:
I'm getting the "cheer up, be happy" speech from my mom. I don't think she groks that this is more detrimental than helpful. Every time I go through another bout of depression, the communication between us stops cold because I get sick of her endless cheer leading.

I'm going to e-mail her an article from WebMD on supporting a family member with depression. Hopefully that will help things.


I can relate BitterGeek, I've had to deal with people like your mom everyday for years...even when I'm working my customers will be like that with me. Recently my dad been developing what I think is a jerk habit of blocking doors and not letting me pass unless I smile or say "hi". He got really angry at me when I said he was bein a "jerk" doing that.

Is it any wonder why I try to avoid people as much as I possibly do?