Showing feelings!

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I've been in a relationship with a girl for 6 months. But we're fighting all of the time, she feels like I'm not interested in her or our relationship and that we never seem to talk to each other. I find that really difficult. I know that I have feelings for her even though I have a great difficulty show it. (I can say it in a monotonous voice, but that doesn't have the same impact ). There are a lot of things I do that aren't socially acceptable too without realising, which she points out a lot quoting my 'unique' behaviour.

I don't have a job at the moment, so money is a big problem (therefore lack of things to do). How do you deal with a problem like this? How do you show somebody your feelings? Also a few conversation starter tips might beneficial (as opposed to coming into her flat with nothing to say)!

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rules of how to win a woman's heart, at the top of the list is be unique, we Aspies kinda get a freebee on this one. Have you every talked with her about AS, not in the i have As so don't mid me if I'm weird, but what it feels like to be on the outside, to not really understand what seems so obvious to everyone else.

Thank you for the response. I told her what 'AS' is roughly speaking. She has had a go at me for things that might be obvious (though I am aware this might be typical of female behaviour anyway) socially - I told her that what might be obvious to you isn't obvious to me which I think she herself has difficulty understanding. I certainly am unique and I think she admires that, after telling her what AS is I think she had a better understanding as to why I do some of the things I do. Though there are still difficulties in communication, but it is all learnt. It's just making her wait for me to learn. I appreciate the response!