A few people 'tease' me about how my grammar is perfect, even in a text message....I don't mind "u" for you, and "2" for to, or obviously two - but it kind of bothers for for too (because I think the person writing didn't understand the difference between to and too, and it seems wrong).
I don't like "ur" because I read "errr" not "you-are", and it bothers me that people use it to mean "your" as well as "you're" (because I think the person writing doesn't understand the difference
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It makes sense to add a smattering of these in a text to keep it less than 160 characters, but I'd pay for two messages if overuse makes the message too difficult to read. (ie, I'd use them for a message that would otherwise be 163, 164 characters, but not for one that would otherwise be, say 175 characters). I hate it when used on the internet, as I see no reason at all for doing so.
I do like to use contractions and slangy words like 'gonna' & 'cos' at times, according to the tone of the message, to give a more friendly feel to certain messages - especially in order to come across more 'NT' on the internet! ....I love the fact we can write nicely composed, grammatically accurate messages on WP without seeming out of place.
(oh dear - but there I am using an abbreviation!)
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