Who Else's Mother is Pure Evil??! !
My Mom is Satan, Lucifer, Noseferatu, Vlad the Impaler, Queen of the Underworld, Destroyer of Souls. She made her worldly debut in the book of Genesis when she appeared as a snake to deceive manking into realizing that they were nude. She was also the mighty and horrific Kraken, who it is forlorned to have been responsible for dragging thousands of innocent sailors to their watery deaths.
She has a half a good ear, and 1 full bad ear. Her favorite word to say is : What??! ! what what what what what what what what all damn day long! I have to repeat myself constantly. When she sneezes, it is usually in intervals of 28, and so loudly that anyone within a ten mile radius will have reason to believe that World War III has begun.
Did I mention her Hypocrisy: She has the nerve to say "Your hateful, God's gonna punish you. Why was I curse with such a hateful sun" - Hateful! Is that even an insult?! "Yes, I am full of hate, for You!" - Do i express such an angry opinion in an open manor with anyone else but her? No i do not.
And everytime I make a smoothie, she yells at me "YOUR WASTING FRUIT!! !! !! !! !"
She has done nothing but crush my hopes and dreams into dust. Oh, and her favorite show is The Waltons. Like I said: EVIL!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !
And she speaks in a georgian accent which makes her Whats? even more annoying, and she'd be rotting in a trailer park if it wasn't for my dad. And she's 58, but her skin is like that of the living dead. I signed her name up to be one of the extras on The Walking Dead one time, but the producers of the show wrote me back and told me that her face was too old and corroding and any exposure to the elements that she would've had while filming they didn't want any liability for. When I was a kid, I used to think she was spider-woman cause of all the red and blue veins on her skin looked like webs. And all she does every day, is get ready for work, scream at me to wake up, go to work, come home, scream at me to turn the waltons on, sew, cross stich, quilt, knit, and crochette, and go to bed. Her political view point is: Let's vote for McCaine, I'll bet he likes the Waltons!"
I'm glad i got that off my chest. If anyone else has a pure evil woman that spawned you, I'd like to hear about it to get the feeling that I'm not the only one who feels like he's in the pit of hell. Thanks.
My mother totally ignored me my whole life except to hurt or humiliate me. She despised me for my relationship with my dad that she spent every moment she could to sabatoge it. She treated my two older brothers as kings and bought them anything they needed, while I would get nothing. I never had a birthday celebration but they were given elaborate parties. I can't remember her ever hugging me , brushing my hair or any of the girlie things a mom does. If I ever came around her she would just push me away or tell me to go away. All my special toys and I say that litteraly because there were only 3, began to disappear from my bedroom, my favorite arrowhead collection that I found piece by piece following my dad on his tractor while plowing also disappeared, every piece. Then she would give me that favorite smirk of hers and tell me I must have lost them. She always ignored, downplayed, or ruined any happy moment of my life. She could not be bothered to show up for school functions, my wedding or the birth of my only daughter. She destroyed my relationship with my dad, because on one hand she shut me out of all family functions , holidays etc. then would tell him that I did not come because I did not love him, She finally pulled her last hateful move when she shut me out of my dads sickness, hospital stay and then his funeral. I never got to say goodbye or tell him just how much I loved him. She then told everyone that I was not there because I did not want to be there. I have not spoken to her now for seven years and I hope she rots in hell and I definitely will not be at her funeral. I hate her so much! People can't understand because there mom is not like her, they're mom would not ever hurt them,while mine took great pleasure as she inflicted as much pain as she could. I had to let her do this my whole life because she would just turn it around and make me out to be the troublemaker and shut me out even more. If I had not loved my dad so much I would have went no contact with her many years ago, I know now that dad allowed her to do this and never put a stop to it so he could just keep peace with her. He just threw me away also. I have a daughter now 29 and a 10 yr old grandson whom I adore, I could not ever hurt them or stand there and smile at the pain I caused. I hope I broke this curse and I do hope that God , the one who gave me to her shows her the same compassion she showed me . I often wonder why I was not given to a loving mom , I knew none of my friends mom would ever do them like she did me.I would recommend to you to go no contact just as soon as you can because she will hurt you until her last breath, and it really is a relief to be done with their crap and build a life without her.Have you researched Covert Narcissist Mother, it really opened my eyes to what she really is and to realize why she treated me like that. I feel like she treated me a a nothing now she is nothing to me. I always saw my mom as a snake , never knew when she would strike, just that she would.
What you describe is for the most part rather ordinary actually. And it is hard to make sense of who is being mean, as far as cause and effect. Certainly a great dislike for your mother comes thru in your words, and it seems exaggerated and unhealthy.
In other words if I was you I wouldn't be worrying about her problems, and would be focusing on my own. I will also mention it is far from as bad as things can get. They can be much much worse.
You were not raised by her so you cannot possible know how it was. I did go to years of therapy and I had never heard of covert narcissist personality. I was so shocked to find out this type of mother has a name. Unless you have lived thru this type mother you can't possibly understand. I know I sound harsh but it was after 50 years of this crap. I will never treat my daughter or grandson badly and I do hope that I show her everyday that I love them and would do anything for them. I am a very compassionate person and I try to help anyone I can. I fell like god was with me during all this time and he has made me be the person I am today. You do not know me and your just mean. This is a form of emotional abuse and I was just a child. It is never right to hurt a child especially your own.
My bio mom is evil.The first person to make me feel bad.She's a liar,cheat,thief,bully,did drugs when she was pregnant with me,a grifter,narrow minded,violent,cruel,and everything that is bad in a human being.I hope I never see her again.
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I am the dust that dances in the light. - Rumi
Thank you for your post, I have just recently after years of therapy been able to talk about this with anyone. It is not a common thing between mothers and their children, most people can not relate because their own mother was always there for them as they should have been. This is some of the first posts seeking other children who were raised like this. Part of my therapy was to reach out to other children of Covert Narcissist Mothers so we could share our stories and help each other try to understand it and not feel so alone with this. It never leaves my mind and I replay over and over the hurtful things she did. I pray everyday that I never act like this and my hatred of her will never cease. I tell people who ask about my mother that she is dead because she is to me. If that sounds too harsh to some people, just walk in my shoes. My favorite show was the Waltons also , I would have given anything to have a family like that. Now I feel it is my duty to be the best mother I can be and end her destruction. My daughter and grandson wants nothing to do with her because they saw just how mean she really is. I thank god that she never had the chance to hurt them. Bless u all who have survived this treatment from someone who should have been your best friend, not your worst enemy.
I am not referring to responder situations, just the OPs. Please read the OPs post.
Look at some of the things the OP says the Mom has done that makes her so bad:
She knits
She like the Waltons
She has worn and veiny skin
She is mostly deaf
She works all day
She has a Georgia accent
She likes McCaine
She claims he is hateful, and he admits it. The things he says prove it. The one thing she does (if accurate) is she hounds him to get up on time and get to work.
There is NO evidence here that the Mom is bad in any way. The OP however reveals issues that need working on.
Both my parents tried to get me raped repeatedly throughout my life. They wanted me to get pregnant then commit suicide so they could raise the child on my social security. I'm not kidding. But nobody believes me so it didn't happen I guess. It was awful I can't leave my house alone and I have that picking disorder. I wish I could stop thinking about it but I can't. No one should have to live this way.
That's awful sorry that happened to you.
