Davidufo wrote:
And I can't stand being lied to ... if a friend lies to me

(and IF I spot it as a lie) I get very annoyed / hurt, and usually put distance between us. Like, I'll just not contact that friend for a while - until the bad feelings have subsided or gone.
I don't really lie at all now, lying is too much stress and I don't see the point in it.
I agree with this completely. When I say I'm a good liar, I mean that I'm the guy you can count on to hold up my end of a practical joke. There's no real harm in telling someone the reason that their tires are all going flat is that the air is wearing out and needs to be changed. Or that, of the two sets of stairs, one is designed for going up and the other is for going down and if you get them mixed up you could fall.
Some people are not good at these kinds of silly things and give the joke away too soon. That's what I meant by a harmless lie. Obviously, you can't play jokes on some people.
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