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26 Oct 2011, 8:28 pm

i realize this is a mature discussion but i just had to put this out for the teens like me. i used to do it all the time id find any reason to do it but now ive stopped since oct 21 and im still holding strong i think the main thing that is helping me is this sheilds of strength dog tag with the prayer of salvation and when ever i have impure thoughts i just pray and it helps and lately i havent been giving off the vibe i used to and now girls will be with in 2 feet of me in fact we were walking from practice at 6:30 (crew) and its 45F and one of the girls was cold and she accually let me wrap my arms around her willingly so i guess ill go with not to "fap"



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26 Oct 2011, 8:31 pm

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26 Oct 2011, 10:11 pm

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26 Oct 2011, 11:31 pm

In your right hand there are pleasures forever.
Psalm 16-11.



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27 Oct 2011, 2:35 am

ShenLong wrote:
In your right hand there are pleasures forever.
Psalm 16-11.


And The Lord said "Let any man reap the pleasures of his right hand. But thee who toucheth thine frank & beans with Satans hand will be damned for all eternity"

Thus it came to pass that giving southpaw self handies was a sin, and how left handed people are thus all evil*


*Once a commonly held belief for many centuries!

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27 Oct 2011, 3:55 am

I'm curious, what made you want to stop? and can you explain this vibe you put out?



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27 Oct 2011, 5:30 am

crayonfish2 wrote:
i realize this is a mature discussion but i just had to put this out for the teens like me. i used to do it all the time id find any reason to do it but now ive stopped since oct 21 and im still holding strong i think the main thing that is helping me is this sheilds of strength dog tag with the prayer of salvation and when ever i have impure thoughts i just pray and it helps and lately i havent been giving off the vibe i used to and now girls will be with in 2 feet of me in fact we were walking from practice at 6:30 (crew) and its 45F and one of the girls was cold and she accually let me wrap my arms around her willingly so i guess ill go with not to "fap"



It's obviously your decision whether or not you want to do this, and your reasons for not doing it are your business too.

But, in my opinion, it's a completely natural thing to do, it is not impure.

I'm not sure how any girl would know if you were doing it or not, unless you were doing it in front of her?


On a side note, I googled the Shield of Strength dog tag. I find it a bit disturbing and vaguely medieval, the association of war with God.
But I guess that's just me.



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28 Oct 2011, 11:37 am

I wanna stop myself, it seems as a waste of time LOL(i like the feeling tho)


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28 Oct 2011, 11:40 am

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f*****g priceless lmao :P



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28 Oct 2011, 1:48 pm

I am asexual but I fap several times a week. Here's why.



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28 Oct 2011, 3:03 pm

If you don't, it'll happen while you're sleeping. So why not at least get some pleasure from it? :wink:


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28 Oct 2011, 3:05 pm

SammichEater wrote:
If you don't, it'll happen while you're sleeping. So why not at least get some pleasure from it? :wink:

LOL to that ;-) you're quite right. enjoy masturbation everyone! as i say, something you don't use dies.


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28 Oct 2011, 3:21 pm

SammichEater wrote:
If you don't, it'll happen while you're sleeping. So why not at least get some pleasure from it? :wink:


True story. That's not a good way to wake up.



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28 Oct 2011, 4:59 pm

ShenLong wrote:
In your right hand there are pleasures forever.
Psalm 16-11.

That is not what the psalm says, and you probably know it. The right hand being referred to is God's, that is, the usual place-at-Your-right-hand spiel. For the benefit of anyone who cares:
Linky.


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29 Oct 2011, 10:18 pm

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I am asexual but I fap several times a week. Here's why.


"What are you doing"?
"Battling prostate cancer! :cheers: "



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31 Oct 2011, 6:54 pm

Actually , I used to "fap" all the time , in ...unusual ways but I realised that fapping lowers the sencitivity of your thingy if you ejaculate too much .I still fap but I dont ejaculate as much as I used to . The chinese philosophy of Taoism supports sex and actually has many sexual rituals , but the trick they say ,is to hold off ejaculating or only ejaculate in actual sex . A man should only ejaculate every few weeks or something this book siad, doesnt make much sence but ,okay . Also its worth it if you hold off jacking for a long time , if you can , its more fun . I study some magick and there is a chapter of sex magick in one of my books (on the kabalah called Modern Magick) its got some interesting sex rituals you can practice in there...