Feeling narcissistic/insecure. Am I attractive?

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Yes, sounding very insecure and possibly obsessed with my looks. I normally don't care that much about those things, but lately people look at me weird. I mean, they always have, if I talked, what with my accent and didactic manner of speaking. So I learned to be quiet. But perhaps I look like someone? Perhaps they think there's something weird? Or maybe they think I'm pretty? I don't know. A lot of people think I am a lesbian, based on my appearance. I'm asexual, it seems, although I detest that word because it makes me think of mitosis. I just cannot grasp what people are thinking about me. I don't really do that much to myself to attract men or anything. I wear makeup when I'm playing Velma from Scooby-Do in my sister's videos. But, other than that, my morning routine is "am I wearing some sort of clothing? Is it weather-appropriate? Would I miss it if I spilled chemicals on it? Is my hair not sticking straight up? Am I wearing shoes?" I'm a "grown-up" now, but I still feel like a little girl, who doesn't worry about those things. I can't tell beauty in others. I think they're all neat-looking. So I'm kind of stuck. Please don't think this is weird. I don't think it would register well in the non-internet world if I went around asking "am I attractive to you?"
Thank you.
Lexi

You look intelligent, and you're pretty, I think. Your hair is quirky, but you're nice looking. You look slightly Russian to me.

You are gorgeous! Smooth skin, beautiful eyes, full, luscious lips. Hot hot hot.

Pseudo narcissism?

You're very cute, quirky, child like and French looking, and if you lived in my area, I'd definitely approach you.

I agree, you are pretty, there is definitely no reason to worry.

And apparently you walk on your tiptoes! Not that that would take away from your appearance.

That would be creepy if I hadn't posted that thread.... And my mother is French, my dad from Siberia. Interesting story how they met, but I'll not bore you with that.

You're good looking.

If you're struggling in dating, then your problem isn't in the looks but probably how you present yourself.

Yes, you are very attractive. That pic looks like it was taken while you were either blinking, moving or about to say a word though. But I can still tell from it, that you are very nice looking.

You have skin that I'd kill for!

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I'm giving it another shot. We will see.
My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.

The link to the forum is http://www.rightplanet.proboards.com

It's not there right now, but the girl in your avatar is gorgeous.

edit: now there's a pouty pic