The extreme inbalance of single aspie men looking for single aspie women,
the low percent in the populations, the small number of users on aspie dating site,
extreme long distance seperations between most user on the site , the likely false
notion that aspie on aspie love match would be better, etc Is the reason the site has
had little growth. You got two kinds of aspies men those that understand the odds are slim and those that need to study math more.
Likely people who are not NT are just as likely to get along such as ADHD, OCD,
Panic disorders, social phobia, etc. So the aspie dating site has to reach out to those
and build a larger base. I guess a high percent of certain personality types like INTP,
etc will also have some PDDs. So trading links with some other sites like that might
help increase the poll of users on the dating site. If the inbalance of available aspie men to women is as great as I think it is (10 to 1) then at some point you have to say
to your self 9 out of 10 aspie males want find an aspie mate so a dating site that does not include a large number of non-aspies females will be doing a dis-service to aspie males.
You might come up with another site name that will not use aspie that could be used to promote the site to a greater pool of non-NT people. You would still keep the aspie afection name and that link would just resolve to the same site. The user would only see aspie affection if the link referal data said they came from aspie_affection or choose to click on it. Others would see a more general name. Use the more general name to promote to the non-aspie community.