gnatterfly wrote:
ME TOO!! ! That's why I hate when people try to start a conversation with me, by assuming that I'm so out of touch that they can introduce me to a regulated, formulated, psuedo-indie cultural program....it feels crappy and hurts my feelings....
Not
everyone saying that means it as an insult. Like "how are you?" actually being a greeting phrase and not a question.
"Have you seen [superpopular tv-show]?" =
"Are you a fan of this too? Let's talk about it!". Though they can also assume that you just don't watch much TV, and judging by what you said they're right. Which is a fairly neutral assumption. If they are snotty about choosing to know more than you on the subject or presume that you must be just like this popular media image of nerds they are mistaken but it's not clear from what you said if that is happening.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P1izup2uX3U[/youtube]
As for hipsterdom "co-opting the aesthetic of nerd culture" I don't really have much formed opinions on that. I never embraced it as mine in the first place, but I do think it is stupid to label anything at all "nerdy" even if it's currently trendy. You do know that lots and lots of people with different tastes actually
are "nerdy" and you don't get to decide what genuine "nerd-clothes" are? But that is not the only thing happening with that fashion. I've also seen it described as co-opting the culture of low-income white people. In a offensive ironic way, of course.
http://tigerbeatdown.com/2011/10/08/the ... -of-class/
And lots of other cultures. In a "this warbonnet is so awesome it's totally cool if I wear it to a party if I like it right?" way. And then there is this
http://tigerbeatdown.com/2009/08/04/mom ... k-grandpa/
http://meloukhia.net/2009/07/hipster_racism.html
Are you certain you know the subcultural affiliation of strangers from their way of dressing? Are ballet flats offensive to you? Whatever I choose to "flounce around in" has no bearing on my intelligence, thank you very much. And whatever you choose to "flounce around in" doesn't either. Or was your statement of "not wearing dresses/answering all the tough questions" just about you being angry for thinking you might be mistaken for a hipster because you're smart, and not about how no one thinking clothes are fun can be smart? I don't think that is likely to happen if they have any understanding of fashion.
You could always listen to this song on repeat until it's untrendy again, it's fun
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T4snBkoMwLw[/youtube]