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15 Feb 2013, 11:53 am

I don't understand this. Why are there so many unattractive middle age women and men, who are unkept,
low education who actual believe they can get a rich,hansom man or for the men a playboy looking model.

I understand that many women and men do wish they could get a partner with a movie star look.
I would love to date a female playboy model, however I know that not going to happen, so have to go
to someone at my level or near it.

but these women and these men, actual believe they can get a rich model. it's stupid.
on online these overweight, ugly 50 year old women believe that some rich,hansom guy is going to ask them out.
same with these fat guys who think that some hot 20 year old playboy model is going to say yes to him.

and screws up dating too. You have alot single 40 year old ugly men, who could be dating these 40 year old ugly women,
but these 40 year old women, are just waiting because they know that some rich hansome man is going to ask them out
and marry them. it's stupid.

(note: there are unattractive people who highly educated, and have good personality but one's Im talking about
are the one's who are basically ''white trash'', ''unclean'' ''bad personality'' )

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15 Feb 2013, 12:27 pm

billiscool wrote:

So if I understand you correctly, you're mad that low-status people want high-status partners? Or are you just mad that they have the audacity to think that maybe they have a chance at getting them?

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15 Feb 2013, 12:28 pm

If people want to have unrealistic expectations of a partner, that's fair enough but people need to understand the difference between fantasy and reality otherwise they are going to place unrealistic expectations on their future partner that will be unfair.

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15 Feb 2013, 12:33 pm

By the time we're 60, we're all going to look old/flabby/wrinkly, etc so getting hung up on looks is something that you should hopefully grow out of.

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15 Feb 2013, 3:11 pm

If your top priority is looks, I honestly feel bad for you. You'll miss so many great people that way.

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15 Feb 2013, 3:30 pm

Yuugiri wrote:

If your top priority is looks, I honestly feel bad for you. You'll miss so many great people that way.

I read his comment as that the 40-year-old women were the ones being far too fussy... and I concur. I don't think I'm an unattractive guy but the women in my dating pool only seem to get excited about handsome, muscular, heroic, wealthy firemen. (I don't even think that complete combination is possible!)

Very few have shown any interest in me... "no spark". Gawd I hate that line.

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15 Feb 2013, 3:31 pm

What I don't get is how people find what you described as 'attractive' attractive.......I certainly don't.

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15 Feb 2013, 3:36 pm

Geekonychus wrote:

By the time we're 60, we're all going to look old/flabby/wrinkly, etc so getting hung up on looks is something that you should hopefully grow out of.

This.

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15 Feb 2013, 3:44 pm

"Attractive" is a unique individual concept. The people you speak about?

They are sheep.

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15 Feb 2013, 3:50 pm

aspiesandra27 wrote:

"Attractive" is a unique individual concept. The people you speak about?

They are sheep.

Attraction can be subjective and dependent on the person but there are also characteristics which are considered to be generally attracted by the majority of people. People reach a consensus to what is attractive whether it is a famous actor, a trait or a behaviour like humour.

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15 Feb 2013, 3:53 pm

I think (some, not all) people buzz off the thrill of chasing something they think they can't get. Grass is greener and all that

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15 Feb 2013, 3:54 pm

bucephalus wrote:

I think (some, not all) people buzz off the thrill of chasing something they think they can't get. Grass is greener and all that

And that goes well with the cat theory, people are like cats chasing a thread of ball of string until they get that ball, look at it and walk away. People crave what they can't have and aren't satisfied with what they do because there's always some illusory patch of greener grass somewhere.

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15 Feb 2013, 4:01 pm

Wolfheart wrote:

bucephalus wrote:

I think (some, not all) people buzz off the thrill of chasing something they think they can't get. Grass is greener and all that

Agreed. I think some people do that with dating and some people do it with lifestyle (+ anything in-between). I'm a lifestyle chaser - i just don't run very fast!!

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15 Feb 2013, 5:10 pm

billiscool wrote:

I don't understand this. Why are there so many unattractive middle age women and men, who are unkept,
low education who actual believe they can get a rich,hansom man or for the men a playboy looking model.

these overweight, ugly 50 year old women believe that some rich,hansom guy is going to ask them out.
same with these fat guys who think that some hot 20 year old playboy model is going to say yes to him.

... umm...

did one of them turn you down or something? :huh:

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15 Feb 2013, 5:17 pm

Dantac wrote:

billiscool wrote:

I don't understand this. Why are there so many unattractive middle age women and men, who are unkept,
low education who actual believe they can get a rich,hansom man or for the men a playboy looking model.

these overweight, ugly 50 year old women believe that some rich,hansom guy is going to ask them out.
same with these fat guys who think that some hot 20 year old playboy model is going to say yes to him.

... umm...

did one of them turn you down or something? :huh:

nope

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16 Feb 2013, 3:46 pm

These people have no sense of humour.
If they did they would know that they can marry the "hot playboy model" but she's going to probably look like a used leather bag when she's 40.
A sense of humour, on the other hand, never fades unless there is some sort of traumatic incident to change the person's personality.
When my uncle was on his deathbed he was still making jokes. It was the one thing that I'll remember about him forever, and same with my aunt.

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