How can I socialize/start a relationship better with girls?

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I am a 15 year old man who has Asperger's Syndrome and Paranoia. Socialising has always been difficult for me but I can socialise reasonably well with guys but not that good with girls. I easily fall in love with a girl but I don't have the guts to ask a girl out. Recently, this feeling keeps getting stronger due to hormones. I want to know how to approach a girl and how to start a relation with one, I am going to greece on the 4th of may and thought this would be a good place to excercise(harshly said, we are dealing with someone's emotions here.) because:
1.The girls there don't know my history.(social awkwardness and was bullied has lead to the majority of girls not even trying to resocialise with me because of the 'group effect'(don't hang out with him, other girls don't do that too.))
2.Small amount of consequences. If I screw something up at school, I might get many bad reactions and often those awkward 'Hey, remember that time when you X' situations.

I am mostly looking for being with a girl that I can love(and preferably be loved back), if she is good looking, that would even better, but any normal girl would suffice.

Please don't judge me for my age, I am mentally very mature for my age, I am willing to take advice that I will learn from, even if I don't agree with it or believe it.

I want to know how to approach a girl and how start a relation with one.

muslimmetalhead, it would be best if you stayed out of this.

There's a few easy-sounding steps you can take to get something started:

1. Find a girl you like.
2. Approach her casually, making sure to be polite. It's a bonus if she agrees to be your friend (If you ask me, being yourself in this situation usually weens out the right people).
3. Get to know her and truly figure out if you like her.
4. Try a date and see how that goes.

Love isn't something trivial, so you will have to be careful. I would say that I'd look for someone nice and intelligent (scored a bonus with my Aspie BF ), who genuinely cares for me. I'm sure a boy will happen along soon enough and put his input, but I thought it would be nice if you had a girl's opinion. Good luck!