Temple herself needed someone to never give up on her and draw her out. I think that is why she finds it essential. And, well, that is protocol for the kids who are really not tuning in or communicating.
Interesting what she says about volunteers. The key is really the engagement and patience, and not necessarily formal training, that seems to underlie her point there. And, well, it doesn't help the child if the parents stress themselves out trying to pay for things they can't afford. We talk over and over on this forum about handling things calmly and consistently; parents need to be their best selves to do that, and not some run-ragged shadow of themselves.
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Mom to an amazing young adult AS son, plus an also amazing non-AS daughter. Most likely part of the "Broader Autism Phenotype" (some traits).