From which type of woman would you run away the fastest?

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From which type of woman would you run away the fastest?
The overly attached women 2%  2%  [ 2 ]
Women obsessed with marriage 2%  2%  [ 2 ]
The beauty with no brains 2%  2%  [ 2 ]
Women who are always looking for a fight 20%  20%  [ 21 ]
The crybaby 2%  2%  [ 2 ]
Women cheating on their boyfriend/husband 17%  17%  [ 17 ]
The elitist 5%  5%  [ 5 ]
Gold-diggers 12%  12%  [ 12 ]
Women who can’t stop talking 6%  6%  [ 6 ]
Women with strong feminist beliefs 7%  7%  [ 7 ]
other (specify) 8%  8%  [ 8 ]
I don't do chicks 18%  18%  [ 19 ]
Total votes : 103

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23 Nov 2013, 11:19 am

From a Top 10 list.

http://top-10-list.org/2012/02/12/top-1 ... away-from/

I was curious what the results here would be.



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23 Nov 2013, 1:44 pm

None of those choices are particularly desirable - I think I would run the fastest from a person with a quick temper. I don't do yelling.



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23 Nov 2013, 1:50 pm

Women who are always looking for a fight are the deadliest in this list. Specifically because they usually have the decency not to do it in early stages of the relationship. Instead, they wait until you're attached and fully invested in staying together. That's when the tear-down (of you) begins. And once they discover that you're looking to get out, they'll use every manipulation tactic in the book (guilt, fear, etc.) to make you stay with her.

Strong feminists, on the other hand, while equally deadly, will express their opinions of men pretty early on, sometimes even on the first date. In which case, you easily say "thanks, but no thanks" and escape unharmed, before any damage to you is done. And since they "don't need a man", escaping will be quick and easy.

I myself was friends with a girl that was a combination of these two types. Good times were pretty good, but bad times were horrible beyond horrible. Dumping her was the best decision I made this year.



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23 Nov 2013, 1:56 pm

Actually, Aspie men generally take what we can get, and often don't have the luxury of being overly choosy.

From my past experience, someone whose political views are the opposite of yours can be annoying.

And, feminists can get quite tiresome.

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Despite the fact that it is incredibly difficult to get a feminist to go out with you, sometimes the impossible happens. However, this is usually a bad idea since you will be on the receiving end of constant criticism about trying to demean the role of the modern woman in the current society. Because the dates will resemble a muscle confrontation between you two, being around a feminist will mostly leave you with a complex of gender inferiority.


But, even though they are Feminists, don't expect that they aren't like other women in a lot of ways (particularly where women have an inherent advantage), and that you can get away with not buying Valentine's Day candy. But, where men have an advantage (for example, in lack of interest in housework), you can count on that being beaten down.



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23 Nov 2013, 2:18 pm

ArrantPariah wrote:
Actually, Aspie men generally take what we can get, and often don't have the luxury of being overly choosy.

If I haven't learned anything else about dating in the last few years, then it's I know I learned this: nothing, absolutely nothing, is worth more than your dignity. I'd rather go without sex for another year or spring $300 on an escort, than to be verbally and emotionally abused by a woman who has no respect for me (despite knowing me for a long time) and probably hates guys in general. I was friends with someone like that, so I know from experience.

Don't fall into a trap of thinking that something is better than nothing. That "something" could end up being very costly, and I don't mean financially. There's nothing more respectful toward yourself that dumping someone who's abusing you.



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23 Nov 2013, 2:31 pm

The Elitist



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23 Nov 2013, 4:08 pm

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Actually, Aspie men generally take what we can get, and often don't have the luxury of being overly choosy.


I feel it's the case of most men in general, not just aspie or whatever, the average man being socially obliged to be the pursuer would end up with what best he can get: a woman who meets the least of his standards but didn't reject him.



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23 Nov 2013, 4:25 pm

i'd run away from most of those types.

a woman being a feminist, however, doesn't bother me at all.



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23 Nov 2013, 4:27 pm

[X] Other, which includes: Women who are always looking for a fight; The elitist; Women who can’t stop talking; Women with strong feminist beliefs.

And by "Strong Feminist Beliefs", I mean the type of woman who blames everything on men, and who also denigrates all men to the level of "Sperm Donors". This is the type of woman who will complain that a man who practices any form of birth control (e.g., failure to donate sperm) is somehow denying her the right to exercise her own "Freedom of Reproductive Choice", who will blame her PMS/PMT symptoms on the insensitivity of men, and who will rant endlessly about how every one of her boyfriends has had lustful thoughts about other women who are more attractive than her.

Yes, such chronically contentious women really do exist.


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23 Nov 2013, 4:37 pm

this poll is needlessly complicated.

Men need just two choices when it comes to a woman companion:

a) woman that can be controlled
b) woman that cannot be controlled

The rest is just decoration.



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23 Nov 2013, 4:52 pm

What?

...no seriously, what? I'm shocked by that.

If one saw a woman as a sub-species, and not being fully human, than I would agree with you. I'm sure some men think like that. And I'm sure some women do, too (ones worth avoiding, in my experience).

Not everything boils down to controlling other people, or being controlled by other people.



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23 Nov 2013, 4:58 pm

leafplant wrote:
this poll is needlessly complicated.

Men need just two choices when it comes to a woman companion:

a) woman that can be controlled
b) woman that cannot be controlled

The rest is just decoration.

c) woman that is controlling
d) woman that is not controlling
e) woman that respects others as much as wants to be respected


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23 Nov 2013, 5:02 pm

I have come to my disrespect of men slowly, gradually but inexorably over the course of 40+ years. And women too. I disrespect all people equally. Does that count?

I am yet to meet a man who lives what he talks.



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23 Nov 2013, 5:03 pm

What about women who fit all of those 10 criteria at once?



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23 Nov 2013, 5:13 pm

Uprising wrote:
What about women who fit all of those 10 criteria at once?


That would probably have to be classified in Science Fiction, given that some of those options are mutually exclusive. Learn to read mate. :P


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Feminist Elitist Gold Diggah



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23 Nov 2013, 5:25 pm

leafplant wrote:
Uprising wrote:
What about women who fit all of those 10 criteria at once?


That would probably have to be classified in Science Fiction, given that some of those options are mutually exclusive. Learn to read mate. :P

Nothing is mutually exclusive in that list to be honest.

Some people are just walking contradictions in every way possible.