problem with my friends

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so im pretty good at pretending and adapting and all and ive got a small bunch of friends, but right now i dont think i have any?
my best friend was so depressed she had to go to hospital and weve had some problems, for example when she wanted to be more than just friends and ive been depressed as well and now i dont know, but we're dragging each other down

and my friends at school dont talk to me or sit with me in class or at lunch. they dont even look at me and when i try to talk to them theyre so obviuos even i can tell they dont want to talk to me

so does anybody have any advice on what to do in this situation? or just some advice on how to get used to being a loner?

It sounds to me as if something has happened to go from a small group of friends to having no friends at all. Have the people around you reacted to you having fallen out with your best friend and have decided to avoid you? Seems a pity to destroy a relationship with a person you regarded as a best friend over what may have been a misunderstanding. I would at the very least be visiting my friend in hospital and hoping they recover fully and can return to school. If you can't resume a normal friendship with that person, at least try to reconnect with that person as a human being. I would also think that you are more likely to make new friends by just being yourself rather than trying to pretend and adapt to others.

It sounds to me as if something has happened to go from a small group of friends to having no friends at all. Have the people around you reacted to you having fallen out with your best friend and have decided to avoid you? Seems a pity to destroy a relationship with a person you regarded as a best friend over what may have been a misunderstanding. I would at the very least be visiting my friend in hospital and hoping they recover fully and can return to school. If you can't resume a normal friendship with that person, at least try to reconnect with that person as a human being. I would also think that you are more likely to make new friends by just being yourself rather than trying to pretend and adapt to others.