Welcome LeviathanMist,
There are only about a hundred here, and lots of boards to view. It is not hard to sort yourself out, where you best fit in.
We are something like you, we all speak on the same wavelength, but after that we are a mixed lot, there seems to be no classic aspie, and out of the lot I have never matched a pair.
Yet we have no problem speaking across age, gender, and personal interests.
Some group by age, some around music, science, math, art, writting, it is a lot of small clubs but just belonging to one interest group does not mean they will share your other interests, The place is large enough to cover your personallity, bit at a time.
Wander and enjoy, find bits of yourself in many others.