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I'm so sick of getting hurt. I thought I'd met someone, but he just isn't interested. He doesn't bother getting in touch or inviting me anywhere.

He seemed to like me though. I'm so confused.

But I dunno why I'm confused. No one ever likes me. I don't know what I expected.

I feel really stupid. I feel like all our friends know I like him and just look at me like, "awh that's a shame"

Gonna be alone forever. There's something wrong with me. Even guys that like me don't want a relationship with me. I just get stared at from afar. I hate it. I'm Always the one who makes the effort and I get nothing back.

I'm so lonely.

I can't stop crying.

No one will ever love me. I can't believe I was so stupid to get attached to someone. I hurts so bad.

Love is a lie. It's all a horrible lie.

I wish I knew what to say to help you other than let it out, have that cry, I like a raw cacao drink when I'm feeling quite low, it does nice things to the brain. Hugs.

These feelings are okay and are perfectly acceptable to have after rejection - especially when you are confused about what has actually happened. Sometimes writing your feelings helps. Hope you get through this.

I took some Kalms tablets. I think they're kicking in now. I've stopped crying. I might actually get some sleep now.

I haven't fallen this hard for anyone in years. It's awful

I'm sorry you're sad.

I wish I knew you so I could offer you decent advice.

Your time will come.

No it won't.

This is just the way it always goes and probably the way it always will. I'm 34 and i've never had a proper boyfriend. There's something inherently wrong with me and men can sense it and stay clear. I can't change that.

I'm just not someone men want to have a relationship with.

Sorry to hear this, I doubt it gives much comfort but there are a lot people here in the same boat. I understand how hard it is to trust people, everybody and anything good seems to fleeting. All I can say is that is to keep on the grind and hope for the best, I don't think it's true than no man will have you. The advice guys usually get here is to work on themselves which is good advice, I don't know your personal situation obviously but we all can better ourselves in one or however many ways and some of us have further to go than others. Good luck!

Fox Hugs ^o.o^

I don't think you're unlovable. I'd consider myself lucky to be with someone like you.

Wish could cuddle you. Cuddling always makes me feel better. Maybe cuddle a pillow or blanket? I do that sometimes since no woman will have me. Not the same but helps a little.

Hate seeing women sad

I dunno what to improve. I try and take an interest, I invite the guy to things. I go out of my way to talk to him (whoever the him is at the time). I'm employed. I have my own apartment. I'm not going to be a burden on anyone. I'm not fat. I wear makeup. I dress normally. I have a good sense of humour too. I help old ladies, I'm not self absorbed.

I'm OK. I'm not bottom of the barrel by any means. Maybe I'm a little shy, but not horrifically.

Hugs

Sorry for my posts in your thread

Big hugs from me, I may have had a relationship but I have been through this rejection process many times and it's hard. Luckily I am already prescribed drugs which help me through and can just take extra to make me forget the hurt

And from what you describe I see no problem in you they are obviously stupid and not worth your time. You sound like a nice women to me from other posts I have read of yours so don't put yourself down.

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Sly: you're not making sense. Why would she dislike your post?

Hurtloam: Your time WILL come. Like I said, I wish I could offer you suitable advice. Had I known you in real life, I'd be in a better position to do so.

Just continue to be you--As long as you're not nasty or bitchy to guys for no reason.

Do you have an especially "special" interest?

Music is mu special interest