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26 May 2016, 3:54 pm

Are there any aspies who don't fit the geeky prototype or never had a special interest dealing with geeky stuff? If yes, what were/are your special interests?



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26 May 2016, 4:32 pm

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Are there any aspies who don't fit the geeky prototype or never had a special interest dealing with geeky stuff? If yes, what were/are your special interests?
I am not geeky, I have never been geeky and I do not have geeky special interests and I suck at math and science. I am and have always been an athlete and one of my special interests is alpine skiing.


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26 May 2016, 4:39 pm

I'm ungeeky.
I'm much better with practical things such as cooking, art and construction than 'intellectual' things.
I'm also into physical activity and outdoor pursuits.


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26 May 2016, 4:41 pm

But you both still score high on systemysing right?



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26 May 2016, 4:51 pm

My interests right now are just reading stuff online and I like to write. I also play my Nintendo 3DS and I spend my time focused on certain games than playing others on it so I have a bunch of games I never play which is why I have backed off buying games from the eshop and buying books for my Nook if I was never reading them. My interests are just to narrow right now. I was just throwing out my money I had realized on interests I never pursue in so I got rid of my interest in buying games and ebooks and focus on reading instead and playing the games I got.


I was always fair in math and then sucked at math because it's all too abstract and I was never a geek or into nerdy things like science or math.

And I score low in the systematizing. I got a 51 which is below average for a average NT female because they get a score around 55. I am just not interested in a lot of things but I am sure my husband would score higher on it because he likes science and reads about it a lot. I also got a 22 on the other systematizing test which is also below average for a NT female.


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26 May 2016, 4:52 pm

FlySwine wrote:
But you both still score high on systemysing right?
I don't know what systematizing is.


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26 May 2016, 4:52 pm

I am both athletic (even at the olympic-levels) AND I am considered a brainiac.
I own multiple computer-systems, laptops, and various computer-parts.
I am probably extremely a-typical. Just read my last 100 posts to see for yourself.

FlySwine wrote:
Are there any aspies who don't fit the geeky prototype or never had a special interest dealing with geeky stuff? If yes, what were/are your special interests?


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26 May 2016, 6:37 pm

I have what feels like a strong aversion towards my geeky tendencies, but it hasn't annihilated that side of myself. It's as if I have two selves in my head, geek and anti-geek. Don't know if that qualifies me as an atypical Aspie.



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26 May 2016, 9:01 pm

Not sure what all 'geeky stuff' encompasses, it would seem the consensus so far is being into science or math. I am quite terrible at math however I find science interesting and find myself reading up recent advancements or scientific discoveries and find things like nature/science documentaries interesting. I tend to enjoy learning about things like that. I also find history, sociology and psychology rather interesting.

I enjoy fantasy and sci-fi books, movies/shows and games. Also I am very much into metal music enough to consider myself a metalhead though I like some music out of other genres to. So yeah not sure that makes me an atypical aspie or not.


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27 May 2016, 12:51 am

I don't fit into any stereotype. :lol:
As an aspie? I'm an active but odd asocial aspie who is not a fan of anything, so nothing much in common to talk about.

My obsessions are more in involving activities than just knowing or hoarding stuffs.


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27 May 2016, 1:32 am

I love the math and science topics, but it stems more from a curiosity of how the universe works, rather than a desire to systematize. My views are very similar to Feynman's - I find beauty in the process and ultimate results, but desire a strong tie to "real world" practicality. Which probably means I'm much more of a physicist than a mathematician :lol:

However, most of my personal time is taken up with outdoor activities or extreme sports. Scuba diving and mountain climbing are my two biggest passions. I do play video games from time to time, but not nearly as much as I did in my youth.

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I enjoy fantasy and sci-fi books, movies/shows and games. Also I am very much into metal music enough to consider myself a metalhead though I like some music out of other genres to. So yeah not sure that makes me an atypical aspie or not.


You too? Haha I think being a metalhead makes us atypical by just about any standard. Ever get caught headbanging in the car?


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27 May 2016, 1:53 am

I was never great at systematizing; I'm good at what I do because I veer toward the parts of geekdom that don't require it. Math & programming...both feel like they are so linear as to be suffocating & restrictive & narrow (not that those are bad, just...not me). I get lost. To make a living, I tend to enjoy more abstract parts of the realm, like playing with big data sets but even that's only because I can think that way without consciously having to work through the (to me) plodding, precise, systemic steps in between start and finish. I usually problem solve by avoiding consciously thinking about how the precise low level steps & parts need to fit & just shape the data to find the solutions.

Then again, I was discouraged and prevented from learning the more systematizing academic disciplines growing up; I was taught that it was "not proper" for me to learn them, and even "embarrassing" so I found my own interests and methods on the outskirts.

So...geeky but with a few big pieces missing?


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27 May 2016, 2:06 am

so do you guys tend to talk about your special interests a lot?



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27 May 2016, 2:09 am

^ no.


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27 May 2016, 2:20 am

That's interesting.Makes me wonder how some people even meet the criteria.



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27 May 2016, 2:30 am

^ :lol:


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