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firemonkey
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21 Jun 2019, 2:54 am

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Having aspirations helps us navigate life in a meaningful and fulfilling way, but it can also cause psychological distress when hopes are left unfulfilled.

New Edith Cowan University (ECU) research has found that it's not failing to make progress toward our 'ideal-self' that is problematic but rather the tendency to focus on that lack of progress in a negative way that leads to psychological distress.

In other words, it pays to be kind to yourself, say the key researchers.


https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2 ... Daily%2529


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21 Jun 2019, 9:16 am

"do your best" versus


"don't put all your eggs in one basket"



"Ok" in what sense?