Joined: 31 Jan 2020 Gender: Female Posts: 16 Location: Manchester
10 Sep 2020, 11:02 am
I’m 36 next week! Low-key celebrations ahoy.
I’ll be walking in the hills and enjoying some pub grub. Wow, I really am embracing middle-age.
This is one year that I won’t be spending the entire time dreading going back to work. My whole life I’ve struggled to find work that I can stick at and it made me miserable.
I’ve been in and out of all sorts of different jobs, I’ve been a waitress, a festival performer, a financial administrator. The absolute worst was working in offices. Endless inane small talk. Office politics. Micro-management. Strip-lighting. I do not miss strip-lighting.
My dream is to be a novelist, so I’ll keep chipping away at that one, one terrible short story at a time. In the meantime, I have to pay bills. Like the student debt that I still have. At 35. Yep. I also need to buy basic food essentials, frivolous sparkly things and plenty of treats for the cats.
I’ve finally found a sustainable way to work and it’s such a relief. I’m no longer constantly occupied with hunting for an escape route before I burn out.
I want to let you know what this sustainable way to work is in case you think it might suit you too.
Since January, I’ve been working online. I tutor children and adults in English as a second language and it turns out that I actually love it. The kids are so cute and we have so much fun in the lessons. I’m a word-nerd so I love helping the older kids get to grips with grammar.
Working from home is ideal because I get to manage my sensory environment and I don’t have to deal with any pesky colleagues wanting to chit-chat. I get to choose my own hours so if I need a quiet week, I just amend my schedule. Such. A. Relief.
A company I work at is taking on new tutors and they’ve asked me to help find good candidates. The only requirements are being a native English speaker and having a degree in any subject. The application takes a few minutes and you can book your interview with me. I can help you prepare for the interview and support you through your first classes too.
If you’re interested, send me a DM. I’m so relieved to have finally found work that suits me, I’d love to share that with you.
Joined: 31 Jan 2020 Gender: Female Posts: 16 Location: Manchester
10 Sep 2020, 11:11 am
Lol, I wish I spoke proper Mancunian! I'm from Cheshire so it's basically RP, what we speak, us from thurr. I've moved to Newcastle now though so maybe I should consider running a course in speaking Geordie...
Seriously though, I also make short videos about idioms and it's great chucking a load of Northern codswallop in there.
Joined: 2 Sep 2013 Gender: Male Posts: 6,651 Location: Mid-Atlantic US
10 Sep 2020, 11:16 am
Bonanza Jay wrote:
Lol, I wish I spoke proper Mancunian! I'm from Cheshire so it's basically RP, what we speak, us from thurr. I've moved to Newcastle now though so maybe I should consider running a course in speaking Geordie...
Seriously though, I also make short videos about idioms and it's great chucking a load of Northern codswallop in there.
Joined: 2 Sep 2013 Gender: Male Posts: 6,651 Location: Mid-Atlantic US
10 Sep 2020, 5:21 pm
Bonanza Jay wrote:
Nope
All right then. Although according to this the Gene Genie was born in Lancashire somewhere other than Manchester proper, although he is a die-hard City fan. I have always thought his way of speaking was typical of Manchester. Sorry if I was wrong about that.
Joined: 8 Jan 2017 Age: 1935 Gender: Male Posts: 4,131 Location: wales
14 Sep 2020, 7:24 am
Nice. My view is that an aspie will often find a job in the end that they like or at least tolerate. Quitting jobs you hate isn't a bad thing, it just tells you what you're not suited to. Many Aspies are put off too quickly by not finding a job they like but it's good to see you found something.