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LucyGoosy
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24 Dec 2020, 12:21 pm

I am an Aspie and also a Special Education teacher that teaches middle schoolers with autism and other disabilities teaching living skills and other subjects. I have been in my present position for eight years but I know that I need to transfer to another school. Toxic work environment, no support, crappy aides, etc., the usual for teachers in my position, more or less. Every time I think about leaving I have panic attacks, am doing my best to take care of myself and keep some type of balance in my life. After being in the same environment, regardless of how bad it is, it is familiar and I know what to expect, sadly. Has anyone else been through something similar?



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25 Dec 2020, 11:17 pm

When I have one it shuts down my thought process



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26 Dec 2020, 12:58 am

nomad48 wrote:
When I have one it shuts down my thought process


I am currently anxious almost every day it seems, with panic attacks, my life is miserable.



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26 Dec 2020, 10:17 am

This is a resolvable situation but it will take some planning.
It took me years to get out of a miserable relationship. I do not have panic attacks per se but my anxiety can be very immobilizing.
Having the necessary resources is of course the first step.
Breaking the process down into incremental, achievable steps can reduce the anxiety of thinking about the end result.
Writing down what needs to be done and said in a very organized fashion will help. The fact that you are currently working and have held this job for a number of years will help you to find a new position.
It may be necessary to mention in an interview that your current employer is unaware you are looking for a new position and you do not want your employer to be contacted, you will need other references in that case.
Things may be messy or imperfect but getting out of your current situation will be worth the relief you will feel.



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26 Dec 2020, 10:48 am

Hang in there , till you can make proper plans to move on .Try not to obsess about moving on , try to make it feel as though it’s a natural progression.


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26 Dec 2020, 10:57 am

Perhaps a short vacation is in order! Job burn out is a real thing ........


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26 Dec 2020, 12:04 pm

Panic attacks are driven by stress. Stress builds up in the body and if it isn't vented, it will turn into distress such as panic attacks. When most people think about stress, they view it from an emotional perspective. But in the human body it is driven by chemical reactions. Most of these are the released by hormones that are dumped into our nervous system where these chemicals are stored.

So the most important question is how do you remove these chemicals from your body? In general stress energy is stored in 6 areas in the body. These are the core, the two arms, the two legs and the neck.

Stress energy can be removed from the arms and legs with a specific form of exercise called Maximal or Supramaximal exercise, interspersed with passive recovery intervals. One example is running 50 yard dashes as fast as possible with a minute rest period in-between.

Stress energy can be removed from the core by generating "neurogenic tremors". This produces a natural trembling response. David Berceli developed a form of exercise called “TRE - Trauma Releasing Exercises” that teaches individuals to generate “neurogenic tremors” to vent stored stress energy locked in the bodies core.

Stress energy can be removed from the neck by screaming.

The neck is a fifth limb. Many animals have two arms and two legs and one other extremity, their neck. They use their neck, vocal cord, jaw and teeth both offensively and defensively. Lions roar, bears growl, dogs bark and wolves snarl. The sound produces fears that can immobilize their prey. Herd animals will use vocalization to alert the herd of the predator’s presence. Many times it is the jaws of a predator that will rip their prey apart.

When an infant is in distress, the child will cry and scream. Individuals have been taught to constrain and control this action because this behavior is very disruptive. About the time a child sets off to school he begins to be ridiculed for crying – they are called “crybabies”. But by inhibiting this natural reaction, the stress energy is not vented but rather stored. And this stored energy needs to be vented and released in order to avoid distress. So the main question is “How does one scream in a socially acceptable manner as an adolescent or adult?

One needs to vent the stored stress energy in their neck muscles, vocal cords, and jaw. The best way is to scream at the top of your lungs several times. But this must be done in a socially acceptable manner. Never scream at a person. I live in the rural countryside and my dog is a free-range dog. When it is mealtime and my dog is up and about; I call my dog very loudly.

R-o-c-k-y. Come here puppy. R-o-c-k-y.
R-o-c-k-y. Where are you puppy? R-o-c-k-y.
R-o-c-k-y. Come here puppy.

I yell so loud that I can hear my voice being echoed back to me from nearby hills and mountains. My voice carries about a mile. The call is so strong that it borders on a roar. It is a very good feeling. It gives me a sense of great strength, like I could split a mountain in two just with my voice alone. I feel strong to my core. It is a great stress reliever or normalizer. And it is socially acceptable in the countryside.

One might try howling like a wolf at the moon. There is an individual on this site from New York City that howls at the subway cars as they pass by deep down in the subway stations. But there are other ways to scream in a socially acceptable manner. A singer can do this if it is a very powerful song. A barker in the county fair can do this. A fan at a rock concert can sing along at the top of their lungs. Some commuters sing along to the tune on the radio at the top of their lungs while they are driving down the road. A spectator at a sports event can do this in cheering on their team. Even a Girl Scout can practice barking in front of the local grocery store when she sells Girl Scout cookies. Or find yourself a soundproof room.


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09 Jan 2021, 9:09 pm

I have been battling extreme anxiety/depression/panic attacks/sleep issues, since I started a new job in November, last Tuesday,had a coworker rushing/yelling at me so much, I started out arguing softly, ending up letting out a scream and my hand started shaking so hard I could not even turn the key right. a physiologic tremor I assume.



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10 Jan 2021, 1:20 am

This could be very good for you. You get to build new relationships from scratch. You can take some of the bad things from your last position and try to correct them in this one. Being new, you will have a bit of an advantage to reset the situation. It might be good to just get out of the rut.

But I totally get the anxiety.