What one must accept is that as one gets older, what they enjoy in video games may change and more important, ones youthful abilities may decline. The speed my brain can process what I see and hear has slowed down a bit. If one does not fixate on being the best, or one of the best, I find video games still fun.
I cannot play F1 Simulators like I use to. I find it more difficult to follow the turns on some tracks that have multiple layouts. I'm just slower. It's too bad because today's simulators look incredible. The last one I bought was F1 2020. The F1 francize has changed so it is difficult for me to find things to enjoy.
Sandbox games are perfect for me. Minecraft, SCUM, SWG Legends, Space Engineers, and War of Warcraft (Classic), games that don't have winners or losers.
Because I'm slower, doing really well is no longer a goal. Doing okay is fine. When I group with my sons, I still try to be useful in games like Baldur's Gate 3. Civilization 7, I'm just grateful to spend time with them online, and have fun. Like one game I spent most of my time just trying to keep Ada Lovelace happy. A couple times, I mean a couple, I've done fairly well in Civ 7. I can't repeat it like my sons can.