Was what I did bad?

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I regurley meet these 2 people at the pub who are a couple. They make me go up to random strangers and say silly/inappropriate things.

One night when i was out with them I went into the smoking area and confided in one of there friends asking "What are there motives behind making me go up to random people"

Apparently this got back to them.and the couple said to me "We will not speak to if you do that behind our backs again"

Who is in the wrong me or my friends?

The couple you refer to as "friends" is in the wrong. They shouldn't manipulate you into doing inapproriate things. Try to find friends that treat you with respect and kindness.

You've been going to this pub with these very stupid people for years, and those people seem to just be using you for their own selfish entertainment and are laughing at you, so aren't really your friends at all.
I mean I get that you like to socialise but ask yourself if this is really an ideal hang-out for you? Couldn't you try other socialising, like volunteering or something?

Their anger at you is derived from their own embarrassment at having others made aware of their conduct

^ Jamesy does volunteer, but he can't seem to keep away from the pub.

I think you shouldn't do what they tell you to do if you don't want to.

And as other said maybe they did it just to laugh for it.

Well I guess if you enjoy going to these pubs despite being treated poorly by the people that go there, then it's up to you. But the next time you find yourself being hurt in these pubs, just think about what we're trying to tell you here. We care about you, more than the pillocks at the pub do.

If I thought someone was treating my daughter the way your "friends" are treating you; I don't think I'd be responsible for my actions

It sounds like your friends are playing you for a fool, Jamesy.

And worse still, if you do not consent to this by being a good boy and letting them walk all over you, they won't speak to you again.

They are not real friends.